Monday, January 6, 2014

Bird feeding

Chickadee

House finch
Recently Wendy started a refuge in our back yard for birds that forgot to fly south. 
There are feeders with seeds and pine cones with peanut butter and lots of seeds in the snow.  We have been surprised at the number and the many kinds of birds that have taken advantage of our offer.  We can see them real well through our kitchen slider, just a few feet away.  And there are birds in the big picture--they are just in camouflage.  There will be a prize for the person who can count the most birds in the picture.

Junco
Goldfinch

Magpie

Mourning Dove

Raven


Robin

Sparrow

Woodpecker

Saturday, January 4, 2014

Temple Square Christmas





Christmas Kick-off

Jaron directing? the bell choir
More bell choir


The King looking for Pinata candy

White elephant time

Cold winter sunset and sunrise at the cabin






Holiday journal

I have a good feeling about the holidays just passed., largely because there were so many wonderful family moments.  But I have procrastinated so long in writing about them that I am not able to remember details.  Also the photographer in me was neglectful in making pictures of everything important.  But here is a list:
1) We had a full Thanksgiving dinner with Wendy’s kids on Sunday evening, Nov 24th.   Besides Hilary and the kids and Michael, Brian came and brought a girl-friend, Lizzie, who seemed to be a wholesome, midwest girl who is a fellow art student.
2) The eve before Thanksgiving was pie day at the Stanfords.  The Blakes and I traveled up to Riverton.  There we found not only the basic Stanfords, but also Miguel and Staci, and Katrina and Troy.
3) Thanksgiving at the Blakes.  This was a smaller group than usual.  Besides Wendy and me, the Blakes, Hilary and kids joined us.
4) Dinner with the Soderquists, Saturday evening, 11/30.  Andrew and Britain had come down from Seattle for Thanksgiving weekend do we had the chance to get acquainted with baby Arthur.  Heidi and Steven were there, along with all the Soderquist college people.
5) We were scheduled to have the cabin for the week following Thanksgiving (Dec 2-7) but did not go, because of a huge snow storm was predicted and arrived on Monday and Tuesday and then very, very cold weather for the rest of the week.  We postponed Christmas Kick-off until the following Friday, as we had another week at the cabin available.  It gave us a chance to make progress in decorating for Christmas and to get gifts.
6) The following week was almost as cold however, but we this week went to the cabin anyway.  On Friday morning (12/13) Hilary called saying the pipes were frozen, so I set out for home and did the thawing thing with a hairdryer, and then returned to the cabin in times for guests to arrive.
7) We held Christmas Kick-off on Friday night-Saturday morning with almost every one in the family there, including Jaron, Stanfords, Soderquists, Nathan and Gloria, and Troy and Katrina, Heidi and Steven.  We had an abbreviated King recognition with Garrett and Brandon, and Garrett wore his crown all night.  There was a Christmas tree pinata full of candy.  The kids had fun being blind-folded and swinging a bat at it  We introduced for the first time a bell choir doing Christmas songs, that seemed popular.  These were chimes that Wendy had made as a RS project years ago.  Jaron helped to conduct the choir.  Matthew led our white Elephant gift exchange.  We sang the Messiah around the newly tuned piano which made the singing, at least the accompaniment, more tuneful.  Dinner was spaghetti and chicken pasta bar and there were apple pancakes for breakfast.
8) With the Provo temple closed for throughout the holidays, we had to be creative to work in our weekly endowment sessions.  We attended Mt. Timp, Oquirrh Mt., and Salt Lake.  The latter visit on Dec 17th gave us the chance to see Temple Square decorated for Christmas.
9) On Wednesday Dec 18th, we went to dinner with Wendy’s sibs and their spouses at Carvers restaurant in Sandy and then had dessert at Mike and Shannon’s place nearby.  While there we listened to a tape featuring Wendy’s mom, reading or reciting some childrens’ stories (Peter Rabbit, E. Pomenandes).  The tape was sent to families here in Utah in 1979 or 1980  while she and her husband Mel were serving as missionaries at the Mormon Battalion Visitors Center in San Diego.
10) We attended the Borg family Christmas party Sunday evening, Dec 22nd, at Bonnie and Steve’s in Taylorsville.  We had dinner and then most people played bingo for gifts.  It was an odd feeling that we were only about 2 blocks from Elder Chandler’s missionary apartment but we couldn't rightfully contact him
11) Monday, Dec 23rd we spent the day with visits.  First we stopped at Brian’s place in Salt Lake and gave him presents.  Then we drove to South Ogden and went to lunch with and exchanged gifts with Dorothy.  Later in the afternoon, we stopped at the Soderquists and saw their Christmas preparations.
12) On Christmas Eve, Wendy and I were here alone, until about 10:30 when Hilary brought the kids home from their other celebration.  Wendy spent most of the time preparing the turkey and other things for Christmas Day family dinner.  We listened together to the Messiah, Tabernacle choir version, and paid especial attention to the wonderful words of scripture about Christ and his mission.
13) Christmas morning we had Jack and Olivia and Hilary to share in our gift opening.  In the afternoon Hilary took them back to their dad’s, but it was fun to have little kids at our house Christmas morning.  Later in the morning, we had “Face Time” with Valerie and Greg and their family and then did a Skype visit with David and Rebecca and family.  In the late afternoon, we went to Matthew and Kim’s for family Christmas dinner (Ham and Turkey sandwiches) and Lewis cousin gift exchange.  There was again almost full attendance by family, including the college students and the young marrieds, Staci-Miguel, Heidi-Steven, and Trina-Troy.  At the start of the gift exchange, I made a try at a brief spiritual message.
14) We went to a birthday dinner for Jeremy (#15) at Matthew and Kim’s on Sunday evening Dec. 29th
15) Michael visited here from Monday Dec 30th  through Thursday Jan 2nd.  New Years eve was tame.  Wendy and I did a new jigsaw puzzle.  After a couple of hours, we found that there were pieces missing and also extra pieces present that wouldn’t fit in.  With such poor quality control we gave up.
16) On Thursday evening we went to Blake's for Brandon’s birthday, for cake and present opening.
17) We took Jaron to the SL airport on Dec 20th to catch a plane for home and then picked him back up on Jan 3rd and delivered him to his UVU apartment along with his favorite musical stuff that we had been tending over the holidays.

Spiritual blessings associated with genealogical and temple work

     Although sometimes challenging, I experience a fulfillment in connection with family history and temple work beyond that associated with other activities.  Other matters relating to the Church are wonderful, but efforts in family history research and temple participation seem to me to be the culminating Gospel activity.  This is not so much something I experience in my mind, but in my feelings, deep down in my heart, in my emotions.  In the following discussion, I will attempt to gain some understanding of these feelings.
     Elder David Bednar in his conference classic on temple work taught the temple ordinances were extensions or amplifications of the more basic gospel ordinances of baptism and the sacrament:
     “... the process of taking upon ourselves the name of Jesus Christ that is commenced in the waters of baptism is continued and enlarged in the house of the Lord. As we stand in the waters of baptism, we look to the temple. As we partake of the sacrament, we look to the temple. We pledge to always remember the Savior and to keep His commandments as preparation to participate in the sacred ordinances of the temple and receive the highest blessings available through the name and by the authority of the Lord Jesus Christ. Thus, in the ordinances of the holy temple we more completely and fully take upon us the name of Jesus Christ.” (“Honorably Hold a Name and Standing”, April 2009 General Conference)
     The words “completely” and “fully” are significant.  As I experience the temple, I receive a feeling of spiritual completeness that seems to be available in no other way.  And, I have come to sense and understand that there are essential elements or circumstances that together form the basis for maximizing this sense of fulfillment in me.  These are:
    1) Performing research that identifies family members who are dead.
    2) Submitting and performing temple ordinances for these family members, as a temple patron.
    3) Helping other living persons to experience temple ordinances, as a temple ordinance worker, and
    4) Helping others to grow in their ability to perform family history research.
     In my thinking, the first two elements are inseparable as a part of maximizing spiritual  fulfillment.  Family history research is most meaningful to me when it leads to temple work.  Performing temple ordinances is good in its own right, but more satisfying when done in behalf of members of my own family.  This fulfillment seems related to achieving the goal expressed by the Prophet Joseph of presenting in God’s holy temple “a book containing the records of our dead, which shall be worthy of all acceptation.” (Doctrine & Covenants 128:24)
     Serving others in these regards adds to this satisfaction.  Functioning as a temple ordinance worker is also extremely helpful in promoting a deeper understanding of the temple and the meaning of its ordinances..
     I want to examine some possible bases for these  feelings of satisfaction, deepening understanding, and most of all spiritual completeness.                                                                Perfection
     One synonym for completeness is the word “perfection,” but not with the common definition of the word, meaning without defect or fault.  Elder Russell M. Nelson provided insights into a differing scriptural definition of “perfection,” that relates closely to and illuminates the sense of completeness that may be provided by the temple experience (Russell M. Nelson, “Perfection Pending,”  October 1995 General Conference).  In this view, perfection is less something we achieve, but rather something that is granted to us.  It is a synonym for exaltation or eternal life.  Elder Nelson begins with an analysis of the meaning of the original Greek words from which the words perfect and perfection in the New Testament text were translated:
     "In Matt. 5:48, the term perfect was translated from the Greek teleios, which means “complete.” Teleios is an adjective derived from the noun telos, which means “end.”  The infinitive form of the verb is teleiono, which means “to reach a distant end, to be fully developed, to consummate, or to finish.”  Please note that the word does not imply “freedom from error”; it implies “achieving a distant objective.”
     "Eternal perfection is reserved for those who overcome all things and inherit the fulness of the Father in his heavenly mansions. Perfection consists in gaining eternal life—the kind of life that God lives."
     Christ is a model for this meaning of the word perfection.  As he was giving the Sermon of the Mount, during his earthly ministry, he only claimed perfection for his Father.  However, in the Book of Mormon he included himself as an example of perfection along with his Father as he addressed these peoples.  By this time, he had fulfilled his purposes as the foreordained Redeemer.  He had “finished his work.”  He had completed the atonement through his suffering and death, and had overcome physical death through his glorious resurrection. 
     Elder Nelson goes on to identify things which lead toward or are prerequisites to perfection, that is, eternal life.  Temple ordinances are essential to perfection.
     “Scriptures identify...  important prerequisites to eternal perfection.  [Among these are] the ordinances and covenants of the temple.  No accountable individual can receive exaltation in the celestial kingdom without the ordinances of the temple.  Endowments and sealings are for our personal perfection and are secured through our faithfulness."
     “This requirement also pertains to our ancestors. Paul taught “that they without us should not be made perfect.”  Again, in that verse, the Greek term from which perfect was translated was a form of teleios."
     “In latter-day revelation, the Lord was even more explicit. His prophet wrote: “My dearly beloved brethren and sisters, let me assure you that these are principles in relation to the dead and the living that cannot be lightly passed over, as pertaining to our salvation. For their salvation is necessary and essential to our salvation. … They without us cannot be made perfect—neither can we without our dead be made perfect.”
     Perhaps the sense of completeness I experience in connection with the work of the temple is a foretaste of the more eternal completeness that Elder Nelson writes about.  We are blessed to have a religion that is not just words or empty promises, but that allows a person to have real experiences that represent a sort of down payment or, as Paul states, an “earnest [my emphasis] of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, unto a praise of his glory” (Eph. 1:14)
                                                                Fulness
     Another word closely related to completeness is the word “fulness,” the quality of being full, containing as much as is possible, not lacking any essential, being at the greatest degree or height of development (according to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/full?show=0&t=1384820370).  Hugh Nibley observed that “fulness” is the key word to describe and understand the work of God in our day:
     "The key word to this dispensation is fulness [my emphasis].  The word appears sixty-three times in the Doctrine and Covenants and thirty-one times in the Book of Mormon. After all, this is the dispensation of the fulness of times; go down the list: "The fulness of mine intent" (1 Nephi 6:4), "received the fulness of the gospel" (1 Nephi 10:14), "through the fulness of the Gentiles" (1 Nephi 15:13), "the fulness of the wrath of God" (1 Nephi 17:35), "may God grant, in his great fulness" (Helaman 12:24), "the fulness of these things" (3 Nephi 16:7), "I will bring the fulness of my gospel" (3 Nephi 16:10), "knowledge of the fulness of my gospel" (3 Nephi 16:12), "my joy is great even unto fulness" (3 Nephi 27:30), "the Father has given me fulness of joy" (3 Nephi 28:10), "the fulness of my scriptures" (D&C 42:15), "which rest is the fulness of his glory" (D&C 84:24), "he receives not of the fulness at the first" (D&C 93:13), "the fulness of the record of John"" (D&C 93:18). (Hugh Nibley, Brother Brigham Challenges the Saints, edited by Don E. Norton and Shirley S. Ricks, p. 385)
     In the standard works of the Church and teachings of the prophets, at least four kinds of fulness are associated with the temple.  These are the fulness of the Holy Ghost, the fulness of the priesthood, the fulness of glory, and the fulness of joy.
     The fulness of the Holy Ghost.
     In his inspired prayer given at the dedication of the Kirtland Temple, Joseph Smith prayed that those persons who enter and worship in this house “may grow up in thee, and receive a fulness of the Holy Ghost” (Doctrine and Covenants 109:15).  It is well-understood that in connection with baptism, a person is given the Gift of the Holy Ghost and directed to “receive the Holy Ghost.”  The phrase in the Kirtland dedicatory prayer seems to portray that something additional or greater that the baptismal bestowal of the Holy Ghost is available in the temple.. What might this be and how is it experienced?
     Elder David Bednar provides insights regarding these questions.  As noted above, he states that “in the ordinances of the holy temple we more completely and fully take upon us the name of Jesus Christ” (David A. Bednar, Honorably Hold a Name and Standing, April 2009 General Conference).
     The ordinances of the temple do not change from the focus of the baptismal covenant; rather they enlarge upon and deepen the ordinances of baptism and the sacrament.
     Here is a brief comparison of components of the baptismal covenant with related temple ordinances (without being too specific about the latter):
     The Temple--taking upon ourselves the name of Christ.   “At baptism, we take upon our selves the NAME of Christ. Enlarging upon that commitment, we see, in the temple ceremonies, that we take upon ourselves the PRIESTLY ROLE of Christ, and, as such, become a TYPE of Christ. The priestly role is assumed by being washed, anointed, clothed, and robed in the temple ordinances. This anointing seems particularly significant as representative of the Savior’s anointing as prophet, priest, and king, the ancient way that such individuals were designated” (see Bokovoy and Tvedtnes, “Testaments: Links between the Book of Mormon and the Hebrew Bible”, Heritage Press: Tooele, UT, 2003, pp.13-15).
     Such priests (and priestesses) become types or models of Christ.  Priests “were ordained after the order of order of his [God’s] Son, in a manner that thereby the people might know in what manner to look forward to his Son for redemption” (Alma 13:2). As stated by Bokovoy and Tvedtnes (p. 14), “when we see a priest perform his sacred duties, we learn about the divine role of Jesus Christ.”
     It seems then that the temple elevates the taking upon oneself the name of Christ to a much higher level, in which each of us, both man and woman, is given the responsibility to exemplify the Savior as we are given rights and privileges associated with the exercising the priesthood in the sacred rites of the temple and elsewhere.
     The Temple--always remembering him.  Here are two of the ways we see the temple enhancing our remembering Christ:
     1) Receiving and wearing the temple garment reminds us to be faithful to the Savior and of his ultimate triumph over all.
     2) There are names to remember and form the basis for how we will be introduced to the Father at a future time, that might be thought of as representing a reborn personal identity for us that includes our receiving Christ and being perfected and exalted by him (see Moroni 10:32-33), reminding us of how he suffered for us, and our eternal destiny with him and with our eternal families.
     The Temple--keeping his commandments which he has given us.  The baptismal/sacramental covenant of obedience is all-encompassing, but we see that the temple provides increased specificity for areas of obedience that are of the very most importance for our advancing spiritual progress in Christ's Kingdom. The endowment includes a series of covenants which focus on celestial laws to be obeyed. There are also a number of other reminders and enjoinders in the temple of the importance of keeping God’s commandments. (from Robert and Wendy Lewis blog, August 2009)
     The baptismal covenant includes promises the candidate makes to God and promises by God to the candidate.  If the temple ceremonies are basically enlargements of the covenantal components for baptism it seems reasonable that promises made by both individual persons and God would be enlarged.  Thus the gifts associated with the Spirit might increase with temple participation.  One might expect from the temple from the Spirit, enhanced knowledge and conviction (D&C 8:2, 9:8; Luke 24:32; Helaman 5:30; Moroni 10:5-6; Alma 32: 28, 30), increased comfort and joy (John 14: 26-27; Galations 5:22-23; Philipeans 4:7; D&C 6:23), burdens lifted and peace of conscience (Alma 36:19-21; 38:8; Moroni 8:25-26; 2 Nephi 31:18-20; Enos 1:4-11; Mosiah 4:3) and accelerated refining of desires, attitudes and passions (Mosiah 3:19; Alma 5; 32: 41-43; 1 Nephi 8:8-10).  The feelings of completeness and fulfillment we experience in connection with family history and temple work might be part of this enlarged influence of the Spirit.
     The fulness of the priesthhood.
     The Lord refers to the phrase “fulness of the priesthood” as he commands the saints to build a temple in the City of Nauvoo, which is necessary as a place to reveal and conduct sacred ordinances for the dead and for the living.
     "For there is not a place found on earth that he may come to and restore again that which was lost unto you, or which he hath taken away, even the fulness of the priesthood." (Doctrine and Covenants 124:28)
     The actual restoration of the fulness of the priesthood  occurred in the Kirtland temple through the ministrations of Elijah the prophet as recorded in the Doctine & Covenants section 110 and is the authority to administer the ordinances of the temple:
     "In a broad sense the fulness of the priesthood includes the authority to administer the ordinances of the house of the Lord for both the living and the dead. The keys of the fulness of the priesthood were conferred upon the Prophet Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery in the Kirtland Temple by Moses, Elias, and Elijah (D&C 110:11-16)".  (“Revelations of the Restoration",  "Encyclopedia of Mormonism, 1-4 vols., edited by Daniel H. Ludlow (New York: Macmillan, 1992
     The fulness of the priesthood is received by individual persons through the ordinances of the temple.  President Gordon B. Hinckley has taught:
     "...the blessings of the temple represent that fulness of the priesthood of which the Lord spoke when He revealed His will unto the Prophet Joseph Smith." (April 2001 Conference,“The Work Goes On”)
     Here is the way this concept is taught in a recent Relief Society lesson manual:
     "As a man and a woman kneel together at the altar of the temple and enter into the new and everlasting covenant of marriage, they are complying with a necessary step in receiving the fulness of the priesthood. They initiate a new organization— an eternal family— within the family of God. 
     "Marriage in the temple is so important that those who do not receive this ordinance cannot enter the highest degree of the celestial kingdom (see D&C 131:1-4). Properly viewed, the family is an eternal entity presided over by a righteous bearer of the Melchizedek Priesthood, assisted by a wife who has been sealed to him for time and eternity and who is responsible with him for the home and family. This family fits into a plan for eternal families within the family of God. It unites a husband and a wife with their children and grandchildren to the latest generation and with their parents and grandparents to the earliest generation.
     "Through our families —eternally sealed to gether—we may partake of the fulness of the priesthood. Unless our families are united by the power of the priesthood, we will be separate, single individuals in the eternal worlds." (Home and Family Education Lesson 6,  p.115: Temple Marriage Opens the Way to Receiving a Fulness of Priesthood Blessings)
     Temple marriage is a necessary step leading toward persons having the fulness of the priesthood, which might be considered to be synonymous with or a condition of exaltation in the highest degree of the celestial kingdom.
     "... to receive the fulness of the priesthood is to receive the highest ordinances of the temple. The Prophet Joseph Smith taught, "Those holding the fulness of the Melchizedek Priesthood are kings and priests of the Most High God, holding the keys of power and blessings" (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, 322). A man can receive the fulness of the priesthood only after he has entered into the new and everlasting covenant of marriage. That marriage covenant must be sealed "by the Holy Spirit of promise, by him who is anointed" (D&C 132:19). To this the Prophet Joseph Smith added, "If a man gets a fullness of the priesthood of God he has to get it in the same way that Jesus Christ obtained it, and that was by keeping all the commandments and obeying all the ordinances of the house of the Lord"" (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, 308).  (“Revelations of the Restoration “ Encyclopedia of Mormonism, 1-4 vols., edited by Daniel H. Ludlow (New York: Macmillan, 1992)
     The fulness of glory.
     The term “fulness of glory” also seems to be used as a synonym for exaltation in its grandest sense, and is received by qualified persons in the hereafter.  While not experienced in this mortal life, but received in the life to come, the earthly temple ordinances play a preparatory part in this eternal blessing.
     "And as pertaining to the new and everlasting covenant [that is, eternal marriage], it was instituted for the fulness of my glory; and he that receiveth a fulness thereof must and shall abide the law, or he shall be damned, saith the Lord God.
     "And again, verily I say unto you, if a man marry a wife by my word, which is my law, and by the new and everlasting covenant, and it is sealed unto them by the Holy Spirit of promise, by him who is anointed, unto whom I have appointed this power and the keys of this priesthood; and it shall be said unto them—Ye shall come forth in the first resurrection; and if it be after the first resurrection, in the next resurrection; and shall inherit thrones, kingdoms, principalities, and powers, dominions, all heights and depths—then shall it be written in the Lamb’s Book of Life, that he shall commit no murder whereby to shed innocent blood, and if ye abide in my covenant, and commit no murder whereby to shed innocent blood, it shall be done unto them in all things whatsoever my servant hath put upon them, in time, and through all eternity; and shall be of full force when they are out of the world; and they shall pass by the angels, and the gods, which are set there, to their exaltation and glory in all things, as hath been sealed upon their heads, which glory shall be a fulness and a continuation of the seeds forever and ever."  (Doctrine and Covenants 132:6, 19)
     Thus, marriage in the temple is a necessary requirement for persons to eventually qualify for a “fullness of glory” of God.  In this way, the temple sealing ordinances contribute to the blessing of eternal life and exaltation.
     The fulness of joy.
     Joy is defined as a feeling of great pleasure or happiness.  It is one of the gifts or fruits of the Spirit (Gal 5:22; Mosiah 4:3, 11, 20; Alma 36:20-21).  The most direct reference to receiving a fulness of joy in the scriptures is found in a revelation to the prophet Joseph Smith concerning the resurrection:
     "For man is spirit.  The elements are eternal, and spirit and element, inseparably connected, receive a fulness of joy."  (Doctrine and Covenants 93:33)
     From this basis, a number of authorities and commentators in the Church have made a connection between having a fulness of joy, both in this life and more particularly in the life to come, with temple ordinances and temple work. 
     Truman Madsen reports that Joseph Smith taught that the temple is associated with a fulness of joy:
     "Latter-day Saints are recognized as a people of consecrated joy, even defiant rejoicing and ceremonial feasting, who "offer up their sacraments" (see (D&C 59:9) in the manner of the ancient feasts and who live in the prophetic vision of the eventual messianic banquet. For Joseph Smith the fulness of joy is associated with "the temple of the most high God." Temple dedications were "an event of the greatest importance to the church and the world in making the saints in Zion to rejoice, and the hypocrite and sinner to tremble."" (Truman G. Madsen, ed., The Temple in Antiquity: Ancient Records and Modern Perspectives, pp.3-4)
      Camilla Eyring Kimball points to the temple sealing ordinance as being an essential element in persons having a fulness of joy.
     "Families are an eternal unit.  So far as we know, the Church organization may not be found in heaven, but families will be. God joined Adam and Eve in the holy bonds of marriage even before they were mortal and commanded them to cleave to one another. God has through all ages fostered the family, giving to men the sealing power so that families can be joined for eternity. The importance of our finding worthy companions and of temple marriage cannot be overestimated when we realize that our eternal destiny  depends in part upon this sacred ordinance. Without it, we cannot have fulness of joy. With it, the future is boundless. There are some who, through no fault of their own, do not have that opportunity in this life, but no one worthy of these blessings will be denied them indefinitely. Life stretches beyond mortality, and those who live worthily will find fulfillment in the hereafter." (Camilla Eyring Kimball, The Writings of Camilla Eyring Kimball, edited by Edward L. Kimball, p.110)
     President Ezra Taft Benson connects this joy to marriage, family, and helping other spirit children of God gain their physical bodies:
     "...this life is intended to provide an opportunity to help our Father in Heaven with His great plan, and we do that through honorable parenthood. We cooperate with our Heavenly Father in helping to prepare tabernacles to house spirits of His other children. So the matter of marriage, the home, and the family is a vital part of the plan of our Heavenly Father, and by keeping this ... purpose of life in mind constantly and carrying out these purposes faithfully we receive a fulness of joy here, insofar as it is possible to have a fulness of joy in mortal life, and we prepare ourselves for exaltation in the celestial kingdom where we will receive a fulness of joy."  (Tokyo, Japan, 27 October 1957, Ezra Taft Benson, The Teachings of Ezra Taft Benson, pp.27-28.)
     President Rudger Clawson presented the same teaching in a 1939 conference address:
     "Another thing: Before we can enter into full and complete exaltation and glory and receive a fulness of joy we must take into account the sublime doctrine of marriage. It is necessary to our final exaltation. The man and woman were created together, or in other words it was one creative act. In the Garden of Eden it was found not to be right for Adam to live alone. Therefore Eve was created and given to him for a companion, a helpmate, that he as a king and a priest and she as a queen and priestess might rise to exaltation and glory and together receive a fulness of joy." (President Rudger Clawson, Conference Report, April 1939, Church of the Air Broadcast, p.118)
     Other church authorities extend the requirement for fulness of joy beyond our own marriages to our connections with our ancestors.  Here is a statement by Elder Orson F. Whitney:
     "The gospel is the plan of eternal progression, and perfection is its goal. Apart from our ancestors who figured in the former dispensations, neither we nor they can attain perfection. But by unity, which brings power, and by faith, which makes all things possible, the glorious end can be achieved. The sacred ordinances of God's House-baptisms, endowments, sealings, adoptions, etc.,-all point to a perfect state of righteous love and unity. Why, for instance, do we marry for eternity, and not merely for time? It is because we are children of eternity, building for eternity, and "the man is not without the woman nor the woman without the man, in the Lord." Together they represent completeness, perfection; separated, they symbolize incompleteness, imperfection; and nothing imperfect can enter into the Divine Presence. Let a man and a woman, single or married only for time, present themselves at the celestial gates, and it will be said to them, or of them, as it was said at the gates of Verdun: "They shall not pass." But they who are wedded for eternity, wedded according to God's law and by his sealing power and authority, shall pass by the angels and the gods and inherit a fulness of joy. The welding link must bind together husband and wife, parent and child, present and past, living and dead-"all things in Christ," to the end that there may be completeness, perfection, and that that condition of unity and love may prevail which is the required preparation for the coming of the Lord in his glory. Amen." (Elder Orson F. Whitney, Conference Report, October 1920, Afternoon Session, p. 36)
      Elder Neal A. Maxwell, in his usual insightful way, makes receiving a fulness of joy contingent upon those who we love experiencing the same joy:
      "Your observations concern a most profound question. How can we ever expect to have a fulness of joy unless all those we love share that joy? In other words, how can there be "fulness" if there is "incompleteness"? How can loving parents, for instance, have a fulness of joy if their prodigals never really come home?"  (Neal A. Maxwell, That Ye May Believe, p.65)
     The Savior exemplified this in another scriptural reference to receiving a fulness of joy.  As his visit to the saints in America progressed, he observed their prayers and faith, and declared:
     "And now, behold, my joy is great, even unto fulness, because of you, and also this generation; yea, and even the Father rejoiceth, and also all the holy angels, because of you and this generation; for none of them are lost."  (3 Nephi 27:30)
     Also, there is great joy “in heaven over one sinner who repenteth” (Luke 15:7).  For both heavenly and mortal beings, fulness of joy is experienced when loved ones repent and become united in obedience to the gospel.
     Thus, a fulness of joy is described in the scriptures and teachings of Church authorities, primarily as belonging to the hereafter and the resurrection, for those who attain exaltation, through temple marriage and temple sealings, in those associations with loved ones who enjoy these same blessings including those in immediate and extended family relations.  In a limited sense, this joy may also be experienced in this mortal life under the same latter conditions.
     Summarizing, I conclude that the sense of completeness and fulfillment I experience in connection with family research and temple work for the living and the dead is a blessing of the Spirit.  This is consistent with the doctrine that receipt of the fulness of the Holy Ghost is a gift associated with the temple, and that through temple worship and association with loved ones and the finding and performing work for ones kindred dead, a foretaste of the joys of eternity may be experienced..

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Arches National Park--views of the LaSals



The LaSal Mountains have 12,000 foot peaks which are higher that any mountain in the Wasatch range.  They are a pretty spectacular backdrop to the red rock scenery in Arches.

Arches Natioinal Park--Windows area

North Window

South Window

Both Windows
Both Windows

Turret Arch

Double Arch

Double Arch

Easy access to an area with several interesting and spectacular arches.  It was on an elevation, so there were also nice views of other parts of the park and of the LaSal Mountains to the SW.






Arches National Park--north end

Landscape Arch

Landscape Arch

Sandstone Arch

Broken Arch
Landscape Arch, longer than a football field, was scary to think of, losing a portion of its rock in 1991.  I was there before that year and hiked all around and through and above, but no one is allowed that close anymore.  We stood behind a fence and tried to guess how much long this arch would exist.
We traded taking pictures with a couple of Chinese tourists at Sandstone Arch.  This would be a nice place for a family of small kids to play on a hot summer day, with lots of sand and shade.  One of favorites.

Charlie Steen house view


Charlie Steen was an impoverished uranium prospector, who struck it rich in the 1950s, and built his home on a bluff overlooking Moab.  His home is now a restaurant.

Dead Horse Point

LaSal Mountains in the background




Trip to SE Utah

Wendy and I took a 3-day trip to SE Utah last week  Wendy had never seen that pat of the State.  We arranged to stay in Moab on Monday and Tuesday nights.  The weather was warm, the sky was clear, and we had a very enjoyable trip.  Our first stop was at Dead Horse Point where we admired the huge view of the Colorado Rive canyons.  Then we spent a couple of hours at Arches NP in the late afternoon.  We got an overview of the scenery as we drove to  the end of the road, and then hiked to Landscape arch.

On Tuesday, we got up early and drove to Monticello for session at the temple.  This visit made me home-sick for our Raleigh Temple, since the architecture is so similar.  We got a nice summary of this temple's history from some worker.  It was the very first temple built and dedicated on the inspired plan of President Hinckley's.  It was kind of a test temple to see what worked.  Apparently there were some areas that were inadequate, so they made adjustments in the basic design from what they had learned, and used the new design in the construction of all of the remaining small temples that were built.  These included the 2-phase endowment rooms, larger celestial room, a second sealing room, larger dressing rooms, and more office space.  After a little while, the Church remodeled the Monticello temple also into the newer, slightly larger design.

Monticello has a population of about 2000.  It has one stake.  The temple also serves one stake in Blanding (21 miles) and one in Moab (54 miles), plus 2 stakes in Grand Junction CO (167 miles) and one in Durango CO (104 miles).  It is not exactly in the middle of a population mass.  According to our informants, when Pres. Hinckley dedicated this temple he told them that they didn't really need this temple (Manti was less than 4 hours away), but the Church needed it to learn how the design would work.  Anyway, the people were really nice, and there was a good spirit there.

We enjoyed a story about the remodeling.  When the temple was originally constructed, there were several stained glass window provided by a company in Istanbul, Turkey.  Oddly, when the workmen installed these windows, they found that there were several extra and so the extra ones were stored in a warehouse in back of the temple property and forgotten.  Then when the temple was enlarged some 3 years later, there was a need to order several more windows.  The builders tried to contact the Turkish company and found they were out of business.  Then someone remembered the windows in storage.  There was exactly enough to complete the new design.

We got back to Moab mid-afternoon, and started a drive up Rt. 128 along the Colorado River.  We only went a few miles however (to the start of Negro Bill canyon) , because this road was under construction and traveling was very slow.

In the evening, we had a dinner at a restaurant perched high over the Moab valley that was former house in the home of Charlie Steen, who was known as the "Uranium King."  The evening view was quite extraordinary and the steaks good.

On spent Wednesday on a return engagement with Arches.  We hiked around several arches in the Windows area, drove to the Delicate Arch and Fiery Furnace viewpoints, and hiked to Sandstone and Broken arches, before heading home.

My one disappointment was not feeling capable of making some of the more difficult hikes, like to Delicate Arch.  But I guess that goes with my age and I need to be content to do what we did. 

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Manti temple visit for Wendy's birthday

Approaching the temple
Manti temple
Mt. Nebo from just north of Ephraim

Mt. Loafer from Birdseye area
We went to the Manti Temple for Wendy’s birthday.  It was snowing lightly as we left Spanish Fork and went over the summit past Salt Creek Canyon but then cleared as we approached the temple.  Then the skies were a brilliant blue.  I am using my new I-phone almost exclusively for pictures, and it performs nicely.

I am still enthralled by the beauty of this old edifice, especially the interior.  The dark woods in the handcarved stair-rails and door casings, contrasting with white walls, and touches of gold, in the chapel, the main entrance hall and other areas are exquisite.  The Minerva Teichert mural in the world room is a classic that cannot be matched anywhere else.  The blues in the decor of the Terrestrial room make it Wendy’s very favorite room in all of templedom.  We feel the influence and love for the temple in the work of the 19th century craftsmen who built this place.

We had an unusual experience with the Spirit there.  As we prayed before we began the trip, I caught myself asking for something I don’t typically do–I asked that we might be touched by the Spirit as we participated in the ceremonies.  When we arrive at the temple and were walking along the hallway from the recommend desk toward the dressing rooms, a worker steped forward and invited us to be the witness couple.  I believe this was the first time we had perform this duty in the Manti temple.  From the start, it seemed special as a way for Wendy to celebrate her birthday.  When we were dressed, the same brother introduced in a warm and personal way to the man who would be the initial officiator in the session.  The persons who performed the various roles all seemed confident and well-prepared.  During the session as this initial officiator addressed certain portions of the instruction which pertained to the suffering of the Savior, I detected an unusual pausing to gain emotional control and could feel that the atonement was something very personal for him, which feeling was also passed to me.

When Wendy and I had completed the session and were sitting together in Celestial Room, the session workers filtered into this room also.  This brother happened to look our way and I motioned for him to join us.  I thanked him and mentioned my perception that he had some unusually deep and personal feelings about the work of the Savior.  He ended up telling us much of the story of his life, how he had found the gospel after an unusually difficult childhood, placement or abandonment by parents twice to orphanages, deeply troubled by the divorce of LDS adoptive parents to whom he had been sealed, and peace in the knowledge that no matter what troubles one might have, the atonement of Christ makes up the difference.  I had tears and spiritual feelings from all of this and connected this experience to the prayer of the morning.  I sure love what the Gospel has done for m
e.

Inoculating our children against evil

Richard and Linda Eyre suggest this metaphor for parenting which seems to suggest that we cannot totally shield our children from exposure to disease-causing viruses of various societal ills and evils.  Rather, many of our teaching strategies must aim at trying to build immunities into our children.  It reminds me of an old Chinese proverb that has served me well, which says, “Nakedness is often seen, but never looked at.”

The Eyres address teaching children to avoid pornography in this manner in an article this morning in the D-News called “Inoculating kids against the evils of porn” (a slightly modified version is on-line: http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865589915/Porn-is-the-villain-so-what-is-the-hero.html?pg=all)

Here is their suggestion for helping a young person transform a sexual thought from negative to positive.  Tell them,: “When you see or hear something sexual, just think for a moment how much more beautiful sex will be if you wait until marriage.  Until then, look away and get away from anything less beautiful.”

Their advice is that talking to kids about sex in a positive, love-oriented way is much easier than using fear tactics.  And when you keep it positive, you can have the “big talk” much earlier.  In fact, they recommend the eighth birthday.  “While it may seem counterintuitive, the fact is that the earlier and more frequently parents talk to their kids about sex, the later they will experiment or go to other sources.”

If you are interested, the Eyres provide more details about this approach on their website: www.valuesparenting.com/talktokids.php

Monday, November 4, 2013

Kitchen additions

I have been resuscitating my fix-it skills in our kitchen.  I got the replacement cabinet hung Saturday evening.  We are still finishing the doors so this job isn't finished.  We got a bigger cabinet than the original, a full 36 inches wide.  It still has only one stud to hang on, but I hope I attached it solidly.  Where the old one had only two screws both on the left-hand side, I put nine in this new cabinet.  There are seven in a vertical line down the middle and I also put in two molly bolts at the top toward the edges.

While we we were doing this work we got excited about improving the lighting in the kitchen (something we have been talking about for several years).  It has been dark in places that count--at the sink, and over the island.  Today, we replaced two lights that give us multiple lamps in these key places.   


We found a 5-bulb light fixture that matched the one over the kitchen table and swagged it so that it is more nearly over the island which is one of Wendy's main food  preparation spaces.  We also replaced the over-sink light, a little one bulb job, with a three bulb adjustable spotlight.