I quote from a passage in the book “When Harry Became Sally” which I appreciated and for which I had my own personal example.
“A couple of recent news items illustrate how our culture has lost clarity on the realities of sex differences. In March 2017, Karen Pence, the wife of the vice president, set off a minor scandal by telling the Washington Post that her husband had a policy of not eating dinner alone with other women or drinking alcohol as public events when his wife wasn’t with him. Mike Pence was denounced in the media as a misogynist whose social practice rested on a stereotype of women as seducers. His critics claimed that it resulted in holding back female employees in their career, depriving them of mentorship and opportunities, since all the important business of the nation’s capital (they said) happens over diner and drinks. Thus, Pence was discriminating against women. The prominent liberal website Vox ran an article titled “Vice-President Pence’s ‘never dine alone with a women’ rule isn’t honorable. It’s probably illegal.” The article was written by a law professor who teaches employment law.
“Mike Pence follows a version of what is known as the Billy Graham Rule, after the evangelist’s practice of avoiding situations that might carry temptation or invite suspicion. Regardless of whether any of us would adopt the rule, it is entirely reasonable, defensible, and admirable. Pence, like Graham, takes the differences between the sexes seriously, and he strives to protect the goods that those differences make possible—marriage and family life—while avoiding the traps they can create. Pence himself first mentioned this policy to a reporter in 2002, when he was a young congressman representing an Indiana district in Washington, D,C. Sexual scandal had recently been swirling around many powerful men in politics, from President Bill Clinton and Senator Ted Kennedy to Speaker Newt Gingrich. This failing was clearly bipartisan. So it’s understandable why some men would follow the Graham Rule, and why some women would want their husbands to do so. Such a rule can help protect husbands from infidelity by creating a barrier to romance and temptation; it can give wives peace of mind; it can guard reputations from media speculation and scandalmongering; and it lets female employees know their boss is committed to keeping relationships professional and avoiding any confusion about it. This is one way for a culture to recognize and respect sex differences.
“After the Post’s profile of Mike Pence had sparked a ritual denunciation of the vice president, a former staffer of his, Mary Vought, wrote a defense of him that ran on the Post’s website. In response to the charge that he discriminated against women, she wrote: “Pence’s personal decision not to dine alone with female staffers was never a hindrance to my ability to do my job well, and never kept me from reaping the rewards of my work. In fact, I excelled at my job because of the work environment created from the top down.” After all, one can value the expertise and insights of female staffers without sharing dinner and drinks. And there are many ways to advance in our career that don’t involve one-on-one dinners with the boss. (Apparently, Pence has not made a practice of one-on-one dinners with male staffers either.) Vought explained that Pence’s personal rule on dining and drinking was just one small part of a larger policy of taking marriage and family seriously. For example, he would hurry home after his official duties to share dinner with his wife and children whenever he could. In various ways, “he modeled for male and female staffers alike that it was possible to serve in a public role with excellence while being wholly dedicated to his family.” Pence should be commended, said Vought, for his commitment to “work-life balance, the importance of family time, and respect in the workplace: values we can all get behind.”” (Ryan T. Anderson, “When Harry Became Sally”, pp. 146-147)
I recall some similar instructions I received when I was a young Elders Quorum President in Taylorsville, that I want to call the Richard Barker Rule. He was our Stake President and gave this instruction at a Stake Priesthood Leadership meeting. He was working in downtown Salt Lake City in the executive office of one of Utah’s banking firms. A women who lived nearby in Taylorsville was hired to work in that same office. That previous week, as he was getting ready to leave for work one morning, the women called him on the telephone and asked a favor. Her car wouldn’t start. Could she get a ride into work with him. He responded that he could not offer her a ride, but he would be happy to pay for a taxi. He explained that it would be inappropriate for him to be seen alone in a car with a women other than his wife.
His personal rule, which he also recommended to each of us, as husbands and priesthood holders and leaders, was as follows: To avoid temptation and also the appearance of evil, a married man should never be alone with a women other than his wife.
Thursday, April 15, 2021
The Richard Barker Rule
Tuesday, April 13, 2021
Arranging Our Pre-Arrangement
A couple of weeks ago, Wendy and I were talking about future things, and she expressed some concern that if I preceded her to the other side there would be no one left who would have the interest or resources to provide for her burial. “They would just throw me on the fire.”
We thought that maybe it would be timely to create some “pre-arrangements.” I have not been too impressed with local services (Walker in Spanish Fork, Berg in Provo), and thought, “I wonder if we should start by talking to McDougals. I know them personally. R. David was our home teacher. I worked with Kirt in scouting. They did a good with Michael’s and JoAnn’s services.
So I put in a call to Taylorsville and began to work with Pam, who is a services planner for McDougals. We spent two hours on Zoom with her and set up our plan. This is something that is not too fun to think about, but we got it done.
Wendy’s burial spot will be in the plot just south of Michael’s which we already own. She picked out a reasonably priced casket, in her favorite color, light blue. I select a matching box, color ivory.
We decided to get the monument installed now, because the cost will probably be less now than later, and worked with Pam on the inscription. We tried to make this somewhat of a match with the existing headstone for JoAnn and myself.
Thursday, April 1, 2021
Houseplant History
This plant has dominated a corner of our living room for many years. It was presented to me at JoAnn’s passing in 2004, by Linda and Blaine Evans. I still remember their generous good wishes.
Once or twice a year it puts out a flower, a single large white blossom that stands out on a tall stem. It actually has two blossoms at present, the most we have ever seen.
Wendy got this plant from her mother, Annette, when the latter left on a mission in 1979. She mistakenly believed that it rarely bloomed, maybe once in 100 years or so. But actually it blooms quite often, with lots of small wax-like pink blossoms. The reason it seemed not to ever bloom when Annette possessed it was that the blossoms come on a long stringer without any leaves. These are sort of ugly and we assume she kept trimming them off before any blossoms could be generated.
There are no blossoms on the plant at present.
Wendy acquired this Shamrock plant about 1980 or before.
Wendy got the ancestor of this plant just after we were married from our neighbor Kris Leavitt. It is out of control and needs to be divided and repotted, she says. It sits on a bookcase top right behind my computer chair and seems a little threatening. I don’t think it would eat me, however.
Just LIke the Family Proclamation
A few weeks ago, while on the web I noticed a brief note reporting that Amazon, which sells 72% of all the books in this country at this time, had withdrawn (cancelled?) the selling of a a book called “When Harry Became Sally: Responding to the Transgender Moment” by Ryan T. Anderson. It was said that this book had argued against current transgender ideology.
I experienced a rebellious moment with the thought “No one can tell me what I can or cannot read,” did a quick websearch where I found a small independent bookseller still selling this book and ordered a copy. It came this week, and it had been a fascinating read. The author is a young man with a Ph.D. in political philosophy from the University of Notre Dame. I found the book to be carefully drawn and well-documented in a way that meets every scholarly standard of which I am aware. It appealed to my professional background and training in ethical human counseling and child welfare.
The author examines the current popular woke culture assumption that a person can change their gender identity to differ from their biological sex, the transgender phenomenon. He challenges the Obama era (and proposed Biden) government-enforced assumption that such gender identity can be treated the same legally and culturally as biological sex. He reports that in the last decade or so that at least 45 gender clinics have opened in our country that have the specialty of treating persons with “gender dysphoria,” using hormone therapy and surgery to alter primary and secondary sexual characteristics.
Transgender advocates often use the argument that they are preventing suicides by providing such medical therapy, but Dr. Anderson reports that there is considerable evidence that people who subject themselves to such “transition” are no better off as a result. The high suicide rate continues and many, many of these persons regret having subjected themselves to these drastic procedures and try to transition back to their biological gender.
Especially troubling are cases in which minor children are identified by adults (parents, school counselors, etc.) as “gender dysphoric” and steered toward or receive transition treatment. There is also the troubling issue of antidiscrimination policies that allow biological males into women’s restrooms and into female sports competition.
As I was reading a later chapter in the book on recommendations for healthy culture and families, I remarked to Wendy, “This reads just like the Church’s Proclamation on the Family. It is nothing short of amazing that Amazon feels obligated to protect our society from even reading this.”
Thursday, March 18, 2021
Shhh, Don’t Tell Spanish Fork City
The varmints are back along the Spanish Fork River Trail.
We spotted a large Rock Chuck (yellow-bellied marmot) yesterday as we hiked along the river trail about half a mile east of the new parking lot on what we used to call Tree Road. See sample picture. Wendy calls this area Rock Chuck Park.
We also saw the stumps of a couple of young saplings that looked as if they had been felled by beavers real recently.
The city eradicated the previous marmot colony and beavers several years ago to our dismay.
Wednesday, March 17, 2021
Borrowed Hymns
Older age is sometimes strange to experience and unpredictable. For the past several years, I have been experiencing the remembering of tunes and songs from my past, generally from my youth or childhood. Often these are popular songs from when my parents were young (from the Roaring 20s). Or children’s songs my mother learned from her mother. Almost every day I have a different one running through my mind. I call this my “Song de Jour.” Sometimes the song de jour crowds other things out and becomes a little obnoxious.. I have learned that when I sing it out loud to Wendy, it will go away.
Recently, there has been a change of focus in my songs de jour. A lot of them are old Protestant and evangelical hymns that I learned in my youth. I reported in my Personal History, Part 1 (p. 91), that I tended at that time to have a little chip on my shoulder about singing hymns that taught doctrines not consistent with my understanding of correct, that is, Latter-day Saint, doctrine. I would sit mute, for example, when the congregation was singing:
Holy, Holy, Holy, Lord God Almighty
God in three persons, Blessed Trinity
But thinking back, I could sing the majority of the hymns that were used.
When Emma Smith was asked, by revelation recorded in D&C 25:11-12, to make a selection of sacred hymns for use in the newly restored Church, the compilation that was eventually published with help from W. W. Phelps in 1835 contained 90 hymns. Thirty four of these hymns were composed by Latter-day Saints and 56 were borrowed from other Christians churches. Even today in the current hymnbook, published in 1985, this split remains with perhaps nearly half of our hymns coming from sources outside our Church. Here is a sampling of hymns composed and used by persons of other faiths, but well-beloved by Latter-day Saints: How Firm a Foundation, Sunshine in my Soul, Count Your Blessings, I’ll Go Where You Want Me to Go. We also have many wonderful hymns that celebrate specifically the Gospel restoration, but it seems to me that the hymns we have borrowed from other Christians of faith also exhibit spiritual truths and attest to the composers being under the influenced of the Christ’s Spirit.
This suggests to me that the composers and authors of these hymns we have borrowed may fit into the category of “holy men [and women] that ye know not of"(D&C 49:8), persons that might fit under a broadly defined “Church of the Lamb of God” (1 Nephi 14:10), who are kept from the fulness of God’s truth, only because “they know not where to find it” (D&C 123:12).
I elaborated on the this latter scripture in another recent blog entry "Two Churches, the Church of God and the Church of the Devil:
https://draft.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/4651333690279368927/5360892635621337056
Saturday, March 13, 2021
All-Church Sports Tournaments
In this week’s Church News I was interested in an article recalling the final All-Church basketball tournament in 1971. This tournament was a Big Deal in the years before it was discontinued. In the years while I was BYU student, the tournament was usually held on campus in the Smith Fieldhouse. I recall finding my way down to the Fieldhouse and sitting in the stands watching these games for many hours.
I never belonged to a ward with enough basketball talent to play at All-Church, let alone win our Stake or a regional tournament. However, during these years the Church also sponsored an All-Church Volleyball tournament, which I did experience in about 1960. Our BYU ward included some California kids who were experienced and talented volleyball players. I recall there being two Gabbitas brothers who were really good. Our ward team won our stake competition and also a BYU tournament and the right to play in a Utah County regional tournament. We won a couple or so games there and got to the finals, where we lost to a really good American Fork ward team led by Herschel Pederson, who was a very tall former BYU basketball center and great athlete. Our second place finish still entitled us to attend All-Church which was held in the old Deseret Gym in Salt Lake. We played a couple of games in that tournament before being eliminated.
I never got to the point of being a good spiker. I mostly covered a space of the floor and tried to be a good set-up person. But it is fun to think back to this All-Church experience, and also fun to see the success that BYU college volleyball teams have had recently, both men and women, and how dynamic and powerful a game they play.
One Year Covid-19 Shutdown Anniversary
We were able to recognize a one-year anniversary of the Covid-19 shut-down by attending the Ogden temple with the Soderquists, as Aaron received his endowments on Friday, March 13th, prior to his leaving on a mission to New York Syracuse. We thought deeply about what was happening just one year ago. It was the week starting on March 9, 2020. On Tuesday, March 10th, we attended the Payson temple and performed two endowments each. We had quite a few family temple names pending. On Wednesday we did another endowment session and I worked my shift at the Family History Center in the evening. On Thursday, we did our usual day shift as temple workers at Payson. People on the shift were speculating about what the Church’s response to the epidemic might be regarding temple work. Wendy and I were feeling impelled to be in the temple and work on our backlog of names. On Friday, March 13th, I did my usual morning shift at the History Center. Then we went back to Payson temple and did two more endowments each. In the evening, we participated in a sealing session with friends from our ward, the Whites and the Lyons. We heard that the Bountiful Temple had been closed. On Saturday March 14th, we hurried back to the Payson temple. We did two sealing sessions, one in which Kimberly joined us. Then we did an endowment session. In the evening we came back for another sealing session. The rumor that all temples were to be closed starting Monday was confirmed. The Family History Center closed its doors at the same time. We felt a big loss but also blessed to have ended this week with a rush of temple experiences.
Monday, March 8, 2021
No More Hayfield, Where the Deer Come to Play Each NIght
Big things are happening in the hay field just below the hill where the houses start. It looks like they are serious about filling the hay field with housing–see the big road being built. To Wendy’s dissatisfaction, most of Wendy’s siblings are of a mind to sell the cabin, and the consensus seems to be soon, before the housing development below gets fully active, maybe by summer or fall. At the cabin scheduling meeting in November, we selected as many weeks as we could before next fall. We hope to have as many of you as possible up there one more time.
Bird friends at the cabin
Wendy and I spent the past week at the cabin. We did some walking and found and found some of bird-friends. The coot pair was at the little pond on the flat at the bottom of the hill. We do not know whether they stayed the over the winter. We didn’t see them in January. They also may have a young one but we did not get a pic.
Our other bird-friends, the sandhill crane family, were not visible, but we thought we heard their cackling from over in the houses west of the pond.
Monday, February 15, 2021
A Meaning of the Offering of the Sons of Levi in D&C 13
I received a new and different, but seeming to me logical and powerful, interpretation of a scriptural passage we are currently considering in our current Come Follow Me studies, from a book on temple work by S. Michael Wilcox, “House of Glory.” The passage is D&C 13, the words of John the Baptist as he conferred the Aaronic Priesthood upon Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery:
“Upon you my fellow servants, in the name of Messiah I confer the Priesthood of Aaron, which holds the keys of the ministering of angels, and of the gospel of repentance, and of baptism by immersion for the remission of sins; and this shall never be taken again from the earth, until the sons of Levi do offer again an offering unto the Lord in righteousness.” (D&C 13:1)
I am particularly focused on the meaning of the statement that at some time in the future of this ordination, the sons of Levi will offer an offering unto the Lord in righteousness. At some earlier time in my life I was given the interpretation that this might be that persons descending from of the Levite priests of the Old Testament would perform an animal sacrifice in the manner of their Hebrew ancestors as a part of the restitution of all things (all practices associated with any gospel dispensation) as predicted in by Peter in Acts 3:21, to occur in this dispensation or the millenium. Thinking back, this interpretation might have come from as an Answer to Gospel Questions from Joseph Fielding Smith, but I am not sure. Among other things I wondered at the meaning of the word “until.” Did it suggest that once this offering was made, that the Aaronic Priesthood would be discontinued, or what?
In his study, Brother Wilcox points out that John was quoting Malachi 3:3. In that passage the word “that” is used instead of “until” (likewise in 3 Nephi 24:3), and in Oliver Cowdery’s description of his and Joseph’s ordination in the footnote on p. 59 of the Pearl of Great Price, he records that John the Baptist promised that “This priesthood and authority... shall remain upon the earth that the Sons of Levi may yet offer an offering unto the Lord in righteousness.” Brother Wilcox then concludes that “the priesthood was restored “that” the offering could be made. In other words, without it the offering could not be made. It was also restored “until” the offering was made. In other words, the priesthood would never be taken from the earth... As Moroni promised (when he told Joseph earlier that the priesthood would be “revealed), the priesthood was being revealed by being restored, and its purpose was also being revealed–an offering had to be made... In the Malachi 3 version, we also learn that the priesthood bearers must be “purged and purified” or be made clean in order to make the offering.” (pp. 111-112)
He asks, “Who are the sons of Levi? What offering will be made? Why is that offering so critical that the priesthood will not be taken from the earth? Why is it important that the priesthood itself was restored to allow the offering to be accomplished? What do purging and purifying have to do with the offering?” (p. 112)
In Old Testament times, the sons of Levi were the holders of the priesthood in Israel and performed their service in the house of the Lord. Regarding the identity of the sons of Lehi in our day, there was a great revelation given on September 22 and 23, the anniversary of Moroni’s visit, in which Malachi’s and John the Baptist’s prophecies were repeated, but with additions that amplified and clarified the necessary offering: “The sons of Moses and also the sons of Aaron shall offer an acceptable offering and sacrifice in the house of the Lord.” (D&C 84:31)
The sons of Moses and of Aaron (both of whom were of the tribe of Levi) were defined in this Section as holders of the Melchizedek and Aaronic Priesthoods. Therefore, it might be concluded that John’s promise refers to both priesthoods. We also learn that the predicted offering and sacrifice will be made in the temple, explaining why the sons of Levi must be purged and purified. Note also the use of the word acceptable regarding their offering.
In a later revelation, Joseph Smith described the “acceptable offering.” Quoting Malachi’s prophecy once more concerning the sons of Levi, Joseph added this instruction, “Let us, therefore, as a church and a people, and as Latter-day Saints, offer unto the Lord an offering in righteousness; and let us present in his holy temple, when it is finished, a book containing the records of our dead, which shall be worthy of all acceptation.” (D&C 128:24)
Brother Wilcox concludes: “In summary, Moroni first quoted the Malachi prophecy and promised that the priesthood wold be revealed. John the Baptist next came to begin its revelation and added that the priesthood would remain on earth until the sons of Levi made an offering in righteousness to the Lord. In section 84, the sons of Levi were identified as all priesthood holders, and it was revealed that the offering would be made in the temple. Finally in Nauvoo, Joseph Smith’s letter now recorded as Doctrine and Covenants 128 invites all the Saints to participate in the offering, and the offering was identified. It would be a book containing all the records of the ordinance work for the dead. Since that time, tremendous effort and resources have been expended to make the offering “acceptable” to the Lord by completing it.” (p. 116)
Sunday, February 14, 2021
Two Churches, the Church of God and the Church of the Devil
Over the years, in my study of the Book of Mormon, I have sensed that an inconsistency exists between two passages. But just recently I have found a resolution that is important to me. The possible inconsistency was between a particular teachings of Nephi and that of Alma the Younger. At one point Nephi taught that “there are save two churches only; the one is the church of the Lamb of God, and the other is the church of the devil; wherefore, whoso belongeth not to the church of the Lamb of God belongeth to that great church, which is the mother of abominations; and she is the whore of all the earth.” (1 Nephi 14:10) In my earlier life, I had heard this taught as pointing to the contrast between our church and all other churches, or in one case, specifically our church as opposed to the Catholic church. I had even heard people teach the notion that the devil would teach ten truths to get a person to believe one falsehood, with all still a characteristic of the kingdom of the devil.
Some years later, Alma the younger taught what I thought seemed to be a differing doctrine, that “the Lord doth grant unto all nations, of their own nation and tongue, to teach his word, yea, in wisdom, all that he seeth fit that they should have; therefore we see that the Lord doth counsel in wisdom, according to that which is just and true.” (Alma 19:8) To me this seemed to imply that God would supply some persons with something less that than the fulness of the Gospel, a lesser or more limited set of truths, according to their capacity to receive and obey his words, but still at God’s discretion and direction.
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Given & Givens find Latter-Day Saint scriptural confirmation of this latter principle in that the Lord identifies that prior to the restoration of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in 1830, persons exist who are “his people” or “his church” who need to be found and gathered into his future Church, which will contain the fulness of the gospel and light.
“....The unprecedented innovation of Christianity was the lived experience of entering into an extended family.
“That this family began in the unparalleled bonding and “loving-kindness” manifest in the intimacy of congregational units did not mean, as Turtullian expressed, that a more general body of Christ was not to be sought out, recognized, and cherished. The earliest Eucharistic prayer from the first century captures this yearning: “Even as this broken bread was scattered over the hills, and was gathered together and became one, so let Thy Church be gathered from the ends of the earth into Thy Kingdom.(quoting from Roberts and Donaldson)” Joseph [Smith], in fact, saw the Restoration as the gathering together just such a capacious church. The idea of a spiritual church that exists alongside, to encompass and enventually transcend the institutional church, was persistently reaffirmed to Joseph in modern scripture. As just on such example, section 10 of the Doctrine and Covenants contains a rather remarkable reassurance. The date [for this revelation] is April 1929, a year before the Church was restored. In this revelation, the Lord refers consistently to his Church as something that already exists. The Restoration, he says, will not “destroy that which [my people] have [already] received.” Therefore,” he continues, “whosoever belongeth to my church [in 1829] need not fear, for such shall inherit the kingdom of heaven.” Those who belong to his Church, he tells us, will receive more light. In his words, a “part of my gospel” will be theirs. But this will not, he repeats reassuringly, “destroy my church, but I say this to build up my church.”(D&C 10:52-55) As Saints, we are called to collaborate in the building of Zion with all those who love God and their neighbor, including so many at present unknown to us, and whom the Lord identifies as “holy men [and women] that ye know not of.”(D&C 49:8) until “all who are suffering torment, whether temporal or ‘eternal’ ... are freed, God’s Kingdom cannot come.”(quoting from Berdyaev)” (Givens & Givens, The Christ Who Heals, pp. 78-79)
Elder Dallin H. Oaks in a recent BYU-I devotional provides definitions of Nephi’s two churches consistent with this latter understanding. The church of the lamb of God consists of all persons “who believe in God and seek to serve him.” The great and abominable church is “any philosophy or organization that opposes belief in God.”
“Book of Mormon prophecies describe the "great and abominable church of all the earth, whose founder is the devil" (1 Nephi 14:17). This "church" is prophesied to have "dominion over all the earth, among all nations, kindreds, tongues, and people" (1 Nephi 14:11). Called "most abominable above all other churches," this church is also said to act "for the praise of the world" to bring the saints of God "down into captivity" (1 Nephi 13:5, 9). Since no religious denomination--Christian or non-Christian--has ever had "dominion" over all nations of the earth or the potential to bring all the saints of God down into "captivity," this great and abominable church must be something far more pervasive and widespread than a single "church" as we understand that term today. It must be any philosophy or organization that opposes belief in God. And the "captivity" into which this "church" seeks to bring the saints will not be so much physical confinement as the captivity of false ideas.
“In modern usage and in many scriptural passages the word church usually identifies (1) a house of worship or (2) a particular Christian denomination, including the true church of God. But if we apply either of those meanings to the scriptures describing the "great and abominable church of all the earth" (1 Nephi 14:17), we miss the intended meaning. For example, Nephi was told by revelation that there were only "two churches" (1 Nephi 14:10), "the church of the Lamb of God" and "the church of the devil" (1 Nephi 14:17; also see 1 Nephi 13:4-6). This description suggests the contrast between those who believe in God and seek to serve Him according to their best understanding and those who reject the existence of God (see 1 Nephi 14:10).
“Other teachings in the Book of Mormon also use the word church to signify belief or non-belief in God. The final chapters of Second Nephi prophesy that in the last days the Gentiles will build up "many churches" that will "put down the power and miracles of God, and preach up unto themselves their own wisdom and their own learning, that they may get gain" (2 Nephi 26:20). They tell of "churches which are built up, and not unto the Lord" (2 Nephi 28:3), which will "teach with their learning" and "deny the power of God" (2 Nephi 28:4-5). They will "say unto the people: Hearken unto us, and hear ye our precept, for behold there is no God today" (2 Nephi 28:5). In the Savior's ministry among the Nephites, He warned against a "church" that "be not built upon my gospel, and is built upon the works of men, or upon the works of the devil" (3 Nephi 27:11). These warnings are not limited to religious organizations. In the circumstances of our day they include a multitude of secular philosophies and activities. (“Witnesses of God” President Dallin H. Oaks, BYU-I devotional address, February 25, 2014)
These latter insights eliminates my concern for any inconsistency between Nephi and Alma the Younger. It also allows me to credit faith and righteousness wherever it may be found on this earth.
Saturday, January 30, 2021
Winning the Vaccine Sweepstakes
I feel today as if we just won the lottery or Publishers Clearing House Sweepstakes. Against long odds Wendy and I had our initial Covid 19 vaccinations on Friday, January 29th. We are so very relieved.
Once Covid 19 vaccines began to be available, Wendy and I decided to emphasize getting vaccinated as soon as possible. While we had been quite careful, I had a sense that our luck might run out in avoiding the infection. The possibility of running into someone who was infected but symptom-free, or just coming down with the disease seemed too high for comfort. Also a new strain that was more highly infectious was being mentioned on the news. Vaccine started to be available for some high priority persons, like medical personnel and first responders, and, in the news, for persons over 75. We were glad when our new governor extended the definition of vulnerable elderly to 70 and over, which meant that Wendy and I could get the shots together. We were also grateful to be in Utah, because some other states seemed to be setting other priorities, like minorities or prison inmates.
The county health departments in Utah were giving the shots. Several weeks ago, Matthew and Kimberly had become aware that some over-70 people in their ward had gotten appointments to be vaccinated and advised us of the process, which involved finding out the date and time when a new appointments could be set up, then getting on the county health website to make an appointment. The competition for appointments was pretty fierce. Matthew helped us locate the Utah County Health Department website, and register our phone to get text messages when more appointments could be made for vaccinations. Then the message came that the county had some more of the vaccine and new appointments would be made at 7 p.m. on Tuesday, January 19th. Wendy and I each got on our cell phones and Matthew and Brianna on their computers at that time. There were so many persons on at that time that the county scheduler system crashed and no appointments made at all according to the feedback we had. The next day I got a message saying that the county would be making some system fixes and we could contact them on Saturday morning at 8:30 a.m. to make appointments through a phone number they supplied. Wendy and I tried but kept getting a busy signal. After 30 minutes, I gave up. Wendy kept trying and after 53 minutes, got a message instructing her to go to the appointment website. But when she followed this direction, the only information was that she found was all appointments were filled.
On Thursday, January 21, we got the notice that more slots would be available that evening at 7 p.m., on the appointment website, and these would be in Spanish Fork at the old Shopko building. We tried both the Web and the smart phone routes. After about 10 minutes, Wendy got access, but there was only one single appointment that seemed to remain. Wendy tried to schedule that for me, but someone filled it before she could claim it.
We were discouraged. A day or two later Wendy learned that one of her lady friends who lives in Highland in the north part of county was able to make an appointment for the Spanish Fork site, no less. We decided to try to get more information to become more competitive. Wendy called her friend back for details. Her daughter had actually made the appointment. She signed on to the appointment website three or four minutes prior to 7 p.m. and then kept hitting the refresh/reload button (near circle with an arrow head) every few seconds. We decided to follow this practice when the next sign up date and time occurred. We also felt it was advantage to have multiple persons trying to access the site for us. Using a computer also seemed to have advantages of faster manipulation than a smart phone.
The next appointment setting time came to us on Wednesday afternoon the 27th, for that evening at 7 p.m. We were at the cabin. We wanted to have multiple devices accessing the appointment site including computers. We had my laptop with us, so not have internet access there. In the late afternoon we drove around various places, like the Homestead to see if they had unsecured wifi, but no luck. We then called Matthew and he agreed to help, even to the point of delaying attendance at a meeting.
Implementing our plan: Just before 7 pm our team had Matthew at home on computer, Erin at Matthew’s on a second computer, Wendy on her smart phone at the cabin, and I on the phone with Matthew to coordinate all this. The three accessing people were all logged onto the Utah County Health Covid appointment site by 6:55. And in a moment each began to tap the reload button every few seconds. At about 7:01 Matthew informed us that he was in to the appointment page so he took the lead in completing the scheduling of our two vaccinations, for Friday Jan 29th at 10:10 a.m., at the Spanish Fork Shopko site.
We drove home Thursday from Midway where an e-mail awaited us with forms to complete and other instructions. We got to the Shopko building at about 9:50 am this morning, and started to follow the written instructions that we got in the email to not be early but sit in the car and wait. A nice man who had just finished his vaccination and was leaving, knocked on our car window and said that there was a long line and the staff are not worrying about your official time, so go on in and get started. We did this, and got in line to go to various tables in preparation for the shots. We got the shots at 10:57, so had been in line and visiting tables for just about an hour. After the shots we were sent to a waiting area for 20 minutes, to se if we had any after effects. We had none. Then we were able to schedule our second shots for February 19th.
The shots affected us similarly to our annual flu shots. We were instructed to rotate our arm around a bunch, and to do a little rubbing on the site of the shot. I wasn’t affected further. After 24 hours had passed, I did not notice any after-effects, other than that the injection spot was a little tender. Wendy still feels some soreness in her shoulder muscle, but is functioning.
Thursday, January 28, 2021
“By Natural Means”
Just recently, I have found strong support on a religious issue those arose in my youth as a point of contention with an evangelical preacher:
“I recall one experience at the Glenwood church. My parents, especially my mother, must have tried to answer my questions or teach me something about how they believed the Lord worked, typically through the laws of nature, in order to develop his creations. I was probably about 12 or 13 at the time. One evening we were at the church to hear an evangelist from Portland give a sermon. We got there early and I was with a small of young people at the front of the chapel. The preacher came up to the pulpit and began to ask our little group some religious questions. I, being one of the older kids in the group and probably one of the more knowledgeable about religion, was giving most of the answers. Finally, came this question, “How did God make the earth?”
“I pondered this for a moment, then raised my hand, and answered, “By natural means.”
“The preacher paused for a moment, and then it appeared that there was a flush or redness that started below his short collar and rose up to envelop his entire head. Then he said in a loud voice, “NO! God said “Let there be the earth.” (Snapping his fingers) And there it was.”
“That ended the youth discussion.
“I was taken back by the confrontiveness of his response. As we were traveling home in our car, I asked my parents, “I was right, wasn’t I?” (p. 90, “Robert Eugene Lewis, Personal History, Part 1")
Here is some discussion regarding God’s creative strategies by Melinda Brown, based on thoughts presented by President Russell M. Nelson:
“Heavenly Father is a God of law, working within such frameworks as the basics of cause and effect, as well as the complexities of divine design and eternal purpose. President Nelson has taught, "Whether in the predictability of the tides, the phases of the moon, or the location of stars in the sky ... law and order undergird all creation." Organizing the elements was, is, and will continue to be accomplished in a highly structured fashion, based on natural laws designed, implemented, and adhered to by God.
As Alma testified to Korihor, "All things denote there is a God," whether or not we fully understand the natural principles and systems governing His creations. Even a lepidopterist who spends his entire professional career studying butterflies has more to learn. Still, noticing and appreciating the divinity of the natural world doesn't require an advanced degree. Nature's patterns are everywhere, and each is a manifestation and reminder of the underlying order in God's creations.
Consider the concentric growth rings visible in a felled tree or the predictable five-petal motif on every sand dollar. More "advanced" patterns, like the helix of a giant sunflower or a chambered nautilus, impress even the most apathetic student of nature. And the self-similar symmetry of fractals is awesome. Found in such diverse and wide-ranging natural applications as mountain ranges, cottonwood trees, and broccoli florets, fractals demonstrate spectacular scaling, reminding the observer that, even in nature, the steady repetition and expansion of small and simple things eventually grows greatness. Indeed, "all things bear record of [Him]."
Learning to maneuver within the parameters of natural law is a crucial part of the mortal experience because it allows for relatively predictable outcomes as we exercise agency. Much of the fun of spending time with a toddler lies in watching him or her figure out how the world works, experimenting with the orderliness of physical laws and their consequences. For example, gravity provides seemingly endless entertainment for baby, dropping her toy to the ground and watching Dad or Mom retrieve it repeatedly. The fun turns to frustration, though, when Mom and Dad quit playing and the toy is out of reach. At that point, the lack of intervention promotes powerful learning, and baby decides to hold on to the toy. The sooner her parents step back and let nature take its course, the more quickly she learns. Natural consequences are some of the most efficient and effective teachers, thanks to their predictability and consistency. When a child sees everyone, including her or his parents, living with the same rules and the same results, fighting fades to acceptance and acceptance fosters ingenuity. What a brilliant system! (Melinda Wheelwright Brown “Eve and Adam,” 46-47, Deseret Book, 2020)
Here is more discussion on the topic by President Nelson, from the book by Sheri Dew (Insights from a Prophets Life, Deseret Book, 2019)
"It always works, because divine law is irrefutable."
During Russell's internship and residency, his appreciation for the predictability and power of natural law increased exponentially. Even with the finest skills a medical school could teach, surgeons have no healing power themselves. They must depend upon law to help the body heal.
In the early stages of pioneering work in open-heart surgery, Russell was drawn to three verses in the Doctrine and Covenants that seemed to have particular application for his work: "All kingdoms have a law given; And there are many kingdoms; for there is no space in the which there is no kingdom; and there is no kingdom in which there is no space, either a greater or a lesser kingdom. And unto every kingdom is given a law; and unto every law there are certain bounds also and conditions" (Doctrine and Covenants 88:36-38). These verses combined with another clear scriptural promise from the Doctrine and Covenants inspired him-that "when we obtain any blessing from God, it is by obedience to that law upon which it is predicated" (Doctrine and Covenants 130:20).
Surely, he reasoned, there were laws that governed the beating heart, laws that, if understood and obeyed, would result in blessings-and in the case of his responsibility for patients, the blessing of being able to cure and heal their damaged hearts.
In his early experiments, he found that the heart didn't mind being held and would keep beating because doing so did not violate a law. Then he and others discovered that if they simply altered the sodium/potassium ratio in the blood that flows into the coronary arteries to nourish the heart, the heart would stop instantly. At that point, it looked like a piece of salmon, flaccid and limp.
By the same token, they learned that when they washed the potassium chloride out with normal blood, the heart would spring back to life again because they had restored the normal ratio. "This process is what surgeons use today to turn the heartbeat off and do their surgical repairs," Russell explained. "You have to have the heart still. You can't splice spaghetti in motion."
Russell Nelson learned about the incontrovertibility of divine law in the operating room, and he learned to respect the power and blessings that result from obeying law.
"In other words," he later explained, "whenever a blessing is received, it's because a law has been obeyed. And that means certain procedures will always work-not just most of the time, not just some of the time, but every single time without exception. That takes the pressure off an individual who is willing to study the laws that govern the physical body and be obedient to them. Otherwise we'd be crazy to take these patients down to death and back every day"
Decades later, Dr. Vivian Lee, then dean of the University of Utah Medical School, invited Elder Nelson to speak to the current class of medical students. After he described the process they'd gone through to learn how to turn the heartbeat on and off based upon the law it operated on, Dean Lee, as moderator, asked: "What if it doesn't work?"
"It always works," Elder Nelson responded, "because divine law is irrefutable." On another occasion, he added that it's similar to the principles that allow an airplane to fly. "You'd never climb into an airplane if you didn't have confidence that there are laws that, when obeyed, give an airplane lift and allow it to take off. An airplane will always work if the pilots obey the law that governs lift correctly, because air is buoyant and will support weight. Likewise, everything a doctor does is predicated upon the fact that if the laws are obeyed, the results are certain." As he told a group of university students, "It was through the understanding of the scriptures and 'likening' them to this area of interest that the great field of heart surgery as we know it today was facilitated for me" (quoting Nelson, "Begin with the End in Mind").
On one occasion a medical colleague chastised Dr. Nelson for failing to separate his professional knowledge from his religious convictions. "That startled me," he admitted, "because I did not feel that truth should be fractionalized. Truth is indivisible" (quoting Hafen, Disciple's Life, 165).
Blessings depend on truth and obedience to law. Said Elder Nelson years later, "You can pray all you want, you can hope all you want, but until the law is fulfilled upon which that blessing is predicated, it won't happen." (Insights, pp. 48-50)
"Thank you for the blessing. Now you may do whatever you need to do to make that blessing a reality." – President Spencer W. Kimball
In May 1981, President Spencer W. Kimball had another issue with his heart, this one requiring a pacemaker. Once again, he turned to Dr. Nelson, who performed the procedure. The outcome was as they had hoped, and in fact, President Kimball left ten days later for Chile, where he broke ground for a temple in Santiago. But just a few weeks later, on a Saturday morning, Russell received a call from Dr. Ernest Wilkinson, President Kimball's primary-care physician, indicating that the pacemaker wasn't working. "That was a call I did not want to receive," Dr. Nelson admitted. "I told him to bring President Kimball to the hospital and I'd see him immediately."
Dr. Nelson had just completed a procedure and was still in his scrubs. Sure enough, he confirmed, President Kimball's pacemaker wasn't functioning and another procedure was necessary, which they should perform immediately. President Kimball agreed and then said to his surgeon, "Brother Nelson, give me a blessing."
Before scrubbing for this new procedure, Dr. Nelson pronounced a blessing in which he told the prophet that the pacemaker would work and that he would be able to resume his duties. Afterward, President Kimball said to Russell: "Thank you for the blessing. Now you may do whatever you need to do to make that blessing a reality."
During the procedure, Dr. Nelson found that, while the pacemaker itself looked good, there was blood under the plastic insulation of the wire that went from the pulse generator to the heart. He instantly knew there was a break in the insulation, replaced the defective wire, and reconnected it to the pacemaker. It worked perfectly.
"This episode was a great lesson to me," Dr. Nelson reflected. "I was reminded yet again that blessings are predicated on obedience law. The patient can pray, the families can pray, I can pray, but if l make a mistake, all the prayers in the world won't compensate for an error. Because the law has to be fulfilled. You have to have a perfect repair, otherwise you'll have a poor outcome. So I learned absolute obedience to the laws of God. My students and those army surgical teams used to wonder why I was so particular about every step of the operation, but I learned that every step has to be perfect if the result is going to be perfect. There is a best way of doing every little maneuver in a complicated operation."
The practice of surgery taught Dr. Nelson that there can never a blessing without "obedience to that law upon which it is predicated (Doctrine and Covenants 130:21). Even for a prophet of God, he would not break the law that governs electrical fields and insulation. (Insights, pp. 151-152)
I was pleased to learn that our prophet agreed with my mother.
Friday, December 25, 2020
Christmas Eve at the Spanish Fork Cemetery
On Christmas Eve just after dusk, Wendy and I kept our tradition and put luminaries out on our Spanish Fork cemetery gravesites. There was a near traffic jam on the cemetery streets/roads. There were several Chinese latterns lifting off up into the sky. Gloria’s grave was brightly decorated.
Its always inspirational.
Sunday, November 22, 2020
Wildlife near the cabin
Sunday, November 15, 2020
The Little Birds are Back
With the small snowfall we had a couple of days ago, a lot of different kinds of bird-friends. We especially enjoy the Junco and the Yellowbellied Flycatcher. Wendy put a dish of seeds out yesterday and we have lots of takers. And Yes, they know nothing about social distancing rules.
Here is what happens when they are startled.
Personal History October 2020
Our lives changed significantly mid-march of this year when the covid pandemic shut everything down. One week we had a full schedule of work at the Payson Temple and the Family History Center and the next week nothing. We were serving as temple workers, working the mid-day shift on Thursdays, and I was doing two shifts, Wednesday evenings and Friday mornings at the Center. We had family names, mostly from my own research, to do temple work for, and were meeting our goal to do three endowments per week for these persons.
Wendy and I decided on a conservative strategy for protecting ourselves from Covid 19 infection. While we recognized that there some things like employment and schooling might need to be carried on, we saw ourselves as potentially at greater risk than younger, healthier people, and we needed to take the necessary steps to protect ourselves from risk of infection. Therefore we have been very careful, we stayed home constantly, had no visitors in our house, wore masks and kept social distances on the limited necessary instances when in public. Once in a while when we got super lonely, we would make a street visit to our families (masks and distances sitting on chairs in the front yard) or invite them to do a backyard dinner visit (again distances and mostly masks).
I tried to fill up these empty hours on my writing. I had published my first book, “Nearer to God: the Book of Mormon and the Good News of Christ,” largely my various studies on the Book of Mormon, in 2012. Now I found that I had enough writings to publish a second book on Church doctrine, “The Higher Law, the Temple, and Families,” and I got that book to print in a couple of months. Since then I have largely worked on my personal history.
In this time period, I also have had two significant distractions, that is, medical procedures. On May 15th I had two heart-related procedures to correct atrial fibrillation. These were ablation and installation of a pace-maker by Dr. David Wang (pronouced Wong). Ablation involves inserting wires into the heart through veins in one’s groin and cauterizing spots on the top part of the heart that are causing the heart to misfire. I wrote about this in a recent blog about being “carried along” to find medical solutions.
Recovery from these heart-related procedures seemed to go smoothly and quickly. I immediately began to feel stronger and have more energy. The most uncomfortable thing about recovery was that I needed to wear a strap around my chest and left arm for a month to keep me from lifting my arm and possibly disturbing the positioning of the leads from the pace-maker into my heart.
Then just at the point that recovery from the heart procedure was complete a new problem arose. Early in July I had new vague symptoms. I wasn’t feeling as good or strong. We were at the cabin on Monday morning July 6th. I had had some problems walking. I had a headache. I felt weak. I called the cardiac PA, and she suggested I go the emergency at Utah Valley. I was seen by Dr. Edwards, who diagnosed my situation as having a brain bleed. I had surgery the next day. In the surgery, they made a large U-shaped incision on the left side of my head. They suctioned out the blood and cauterized places where there was still bleeding. Medical people seemed to assume that I had fallen to cause this problem, but that was not true. Dr Edwards told Wendy that it looked like the bleed had been going on maybe 6 weeks, there was old bleeding and fresh bleeding. He speculated that it might have started with blood thinners that were administered during the pace-maker procedure. I guess we will never know.
The recovery from the brain surgery was quite a bit more challenging then the heart procedures. I was in recovery for two days then moved to the rehab unit on the 7th or top floor of Utah Valley Hospital and was released to go home on Wednesday, July 15th.
I enjoyed being in the unit. For one thing, the view was wonderful. The 7th floor has windows nearly 360 degrees around. There was a great view of Timp, of Utah Lake, of the south part of Utah Valley, and BYU and the mountains to the east. Also the staff were ultra supportive and positive and a joy to work with.
The rehab unit had three components, physical, occupational, and ________. The latter seemed to be focused on mental acuity and a couple of therapists gave me a bunch of tests. They seemed to be like old IQ tests from my college training and involved solving a series of not too difficult mental puzzles, which seemed rather fun to me. After a couple of sessions with persons from this specialty, they decided to that I had not lost any mental ability, so I was left to work with the other two specialties. With the latter, we started with real basics, like getting up, getting dressed, going to the bathroom, taking a shower, walking. I was weak. I had a problem with balance. To some extent lacked confidence in what I was capable of doing. Staff persons did not allow me to do much for myself at first, as a protection against falling. Someone had to be there holding my arm even if I was just moving from my bed to a chair, or if I was taking even one step.
I progressed fairly quickly in the rehab process, though, and by the time I went home I could confidently walk by myself within our house.
At first, the rehab exercises had a lot to do with balance, like staying upright while standing with feet together and my eyes closed, and walking in less desireable conditions like in grass or rocks, or using stairs. Eventually the whole emphasis was on regaining endurance through walking. Wendy was wonderful to support this process. At first it was expected that she stay at my elbow or that we hold hands as we walked. After a little while, that security was not needed. At about that point we started to track mileage and steps using a health app on our smart phones. I kept gaining endurance. We started walking on the Spanish Fork River Trail. Initially I could get to a log about a quarter of a mile from the start, where I rested in preparation for the return to our car. Gradually I could go farther, until about a month ago, I made it to the park which is over a mile each way. I celebrated my first 10,000 step day (about 4 miles) early in September, and am now in my fifth week in a row in which I have had six 10,000 step days each week (laying off on Sundays).
Weather has been unusual over the last few months. Here in Utah the summer was exceptionally hot, with hardly any rain. The fall has been unusually warm and dry also, except for a couple a exceptionally cold spells. This last week we have had an arctic front with some snow one day and freezing lows in the teens. Other places, also are seeing more extreme weather, like Louisiana which has suffered through about six hurricanes. Here in the west we have had a large number of forest fires, made worse by dry weather and strong winds, especially problematic un California.
Thursday, October 1, 2020
Back to the Temple, September 24, 2020
Last Thursday, we (and especially Wendy) were overjoyed to get an invitation to attend the Provo temple. Kimberly’s nephew, the son of her brother Travis, has a mission called to Houston Texas and was receiving his endowments. In the new temple arrangements, a group of 16 can attend. Travis and Bonnie and their family have just moved from Mt Home, ID to Price, where he is re-establishing his medical practice. Their invited family consisted of three, plus Bonnie’s parents, plus Matthew and Kim and Alyssa and Jeremy. Matthew and Kim were kind enough to make the arrangements with the Criddles for us to occupy a couple of the unused slots. It had been 6 dry months since we last were in a temple and performed an endowment. It was so nice. Wendy was especially estatic. It was just like going home.
The minor adjustments in the ceremony to comply with social distancing were not a distraction. Thanks to Kimberly and Matthew and the Criddle family for letting us have this experience.
Letter to the Editor #2
Here is another unsent Letter to the Editor:
This is a description of People of Praise, a small charismatic Catholic movement to which Amy Coney Barrett and her family belong:
A tightknit religious group consisting of small lay-led groups or communities. Member share a desire for a more intense, more experiential faith. Adult members of the group take a covenant that includes a promise to follow the teachings and instructions of the group’s leaders and teachers, and make other specific promises to one another. These are people who take their Christian faith and their intention to share life with others seriously. Every person or family has their own spiritual leader who they can turn to for guidance in their lives, on family, finances and more. There is a tremendous ethic of serving and caring for others, specially for persons in one’s own group. When someone who loses a job, or gets sick, group members are there. Although one-to-one guidance is important, the group teaches individual prayer, as well. Every person has personal freedom; you have to be responsible for your own decision and responsible to your conscience. Members contribute a percentage of their gross income to the community. In the teachings of this community there is an emphasis on the importance of traditional family and parental roles.
I know of another people of praise type movement with many similar attributes, and more. In 2019 in this movement there were 30,940 such groups world-wide. They are called wards and branches.
Letter to the Editor #1
Here is a letter to the editor that I didn't send off:
I would like to suggest that Black Lives Matter, black professional athletes, politicians, and others with influence on the black communities and especially black inner city cultures, add to their change agendas the following as a major priority: promote black marriage and increased involvement of black fathers in parenting, where the childbirth illegitimacy rate currently exceeds 70%. Predictably, we should then begin to see, for young people in black communities and possibly over time for the entire community, significant reductions in youth behavioral problems, poor academic performance, truancy, youth crime and violence, promiscuity and teen pregnancy, drug and alcohol abuse, runaway and homelessness, sexual exploitation of girls, physical health problems, mental health disorders, unemployment and low income, problems in future adult relationships, short life spans, and tension with police and legal authorities.
Persons who might want to explore the research on problems associated with fatherlessness, which incidently are largely independent of race, might study the following:
Katy Faust and Stacy Manning June 12, 2020, "To Truly Reduce Racial Disparities, We Must Acknowledge Black Fathers Matter," https://thefederalist.com/2020/06/12/to-truly-reduce-racial-disparities-we-must-acknowledge-black-fathers-matter/
Edward Kruk, “Father Absence, Father Deficit, Father Hunger: The Vital Importance of Paternal Presence in Children’s Lives” Psychology Today, May 23, 2012.
David L. Gutmann, “The Paternal Imperative,”
http://americanvalues.org/catalog/pdfs/wp-47.pdf
Claudio Sanchez, “Poverty, Dropouts, Pregnancy, Suicide: What The Numbers Say About Fatherless Kids” citing the work of Alan Blankenstein
https://www.npr.org/sections/ed/2017/06/18/533062607/poverty-dropouts-pregnancy-suicide-what-the-numbers-say-about-fatherless-kids
David Blankenhorn, “Fatherless America,” January 03, 1993, Center of the American Experiment.
https://www.americanexperiment.org/reports-books/fatherless-america/
Monday, September 28, 2020
Walking milestone
This last week I reached something of a milestone in my rehabilitation efforts, which now mostly center on walking. I now have the energy and endurance to walk several miles every day, along the Spanish Fork River Trail or around our neighborhood. Here is my record:
Monday Sept 21, 11,013 steps
Tuesday Sept 22, 10,038 steps
Wednesday Sept 23, 10,088 steps
Thursday Sept 24, 10,200 steps
Friday Sept 25, 10193 steps
Saturday Sept 26, 10, 137 steps
10,000 of my steps is about 4 miles or more.
Recognizing President Moz Burles
Working on my personal history, I decided that I would have a section on persons who had important influences on my life, persons that helped me develop values and take positive steps. Aside from my parents, and especially my mother, I think the most influential person was Moz Burles, the White Salmon Branch President when I was a teenager. He encouraged me in so many ways, such as when I brought him a tithing check from my summer haying work two years before I was a church-member, having long discussions about the Church and its teachings, bringing our family Church related books to read, helping me to get baptized, arranging of me to receive the Aaronic Priesthood, giving me priesthood assignments, helping me to be called on a mission, and so forth. I wrote a three page description of the ways he helped me in my life.
After I served my mission and was living in Utah, I had very little contact with President Burles. I knew that he continued to serve in various ways in the white Salmon Branch/Ward and in the community. At some point I learned that he had lost his wife and in his old age was being cared for by a sister who lived in West Jordan and that he had passed away. As I was writing about him, I decided to look up his record in FamilySearch. I found there a fairly sketchy record added by a niece or nephew, that really didn’t do justice to him for his contributions to me personally or his positive influence in the White Salmon community. I looked for information about him in Ancestry.com and found a nice obituary record that had been published in the White Salmon Enterprise. I learned that he was buried in, of all places, in the town cemetery in Charleston, Utah, a little community in Heber Valley, which lay along the highway from Provo Canyon just at the top of Deer Creek reservoir. He was buried by his sister Bessie and her husband, Neil Winterton, in the Winterton family plot in his hometown. Several weeks ago, Wendy and I were able to locate his grave in that cemetery so far from the people in Washington state that he served and influenced and even from his wife, Valore, who was buried in a cemetery near their home.
I then added three items to the memories section for President Burles in FamilySearch, that I hope adds to his luster. First, there was his obituary, second my 3 page tribute to his life, and third a picture of his grave marker in the Charleston Town cemetery: Mozart Choules Burles, KW8L-8H1, born in Provo, UT 11 August 1902, died 2 April 1983 in Salt Lake City, UT
Wednesday, September 16, 2020
Walking again on the River Trail
As we do walking for exercise, Wendy and I have been retracing our steps from several years ago, as I have gained strength to walk longer distances. We have gradually increased the distance we can walk, we have gone back to the Spanish Fork River Trail and especially love the walk that begins at what we hade heard called the tree road going east to the park over a mile and then back.
The city has been upgrading the trail and has just completed some trails coming down into the bottoms and has built a parking lot with restroom and grass at the river at the tree road now which is now called Poplar Road.
We have had two mornings when we have run into David and Katie as they have been out for a run.
There were two places on this stretch that we were attracted to in earlier years:
1) The home of the Rock Chucks. Here is a picture of the river bank reinforced with big boulders that used to be the home of colony of Rock Chucks or Yellow Bellied Marmots. We would stop and watch them pop their heads out of holes among these rocks.
Looking the other way (west), one morning we saw a Rock Chuck mama and her babies crossing the trail right in the spot ahead coming back from an expedition in a corn field just across to the north.
2) A Beaver colony. There was a time when we discovered a bunch of little trees that appeared to have been gnawed off by beavers at about this spot. We looked further and found a palce in the River itself where it appeared that these animals wert starting to build a dam.
Unhappily, it appears that persons responsible for the river and the trail could not tolerate the presence of these beautiful wild things, and must have trapped or destroyed them
Here’s something else we are noticing. We see lots and lots of people on the new trail system, running, walking, bicycling. I said to Wendy, “It must be that Latter-day Saints are aren’t exercising, because most all of the people we see are in shorts or sleeveless tops” Wendy said, “No, I think their just all dressed in exercise clothes. Its the new practice.”
Could that be?
Friday, June 26, 2020
Personal History XII - Post High School Education
As I neared the end of my high school time, I experienced several influences pushing me to go to college. This was not the particular norm for graduates of Glenwood High School, but this was what my mother had done, for one year, and some of her siblings, and also my grandfather Davenport. I was conscious of my future from such things as when I was a little boy, after I was in bed, my dad would come into my bedroom to talk. He asked me questions, such as, what color or what kind of car would I drive, or what did I want to be when I grew up.
Also, I was aware that there was a savings bond that my parents had purchased that was to go for my education. The fact that it was only for $25 did not seem to matter. It represented something about their goal or expectation for me or my destiny. I heard them say that getting an education would enable me to do better and greater things than would be possible if I stayed in Glenwood valley, that education would be the key to better life.
My high school teachers also seemed to expect that I attend college. I was the valedictorian of my senior class which would automatically entitle me to a scholarship at Washington State University at Pullman. My friend Ron McNutt was being encouraged by his parents, and me along with him, to apply to one of two Presbyterian colleges in the area, Whitman College, in Walla Walla, or Lewis and Clark College, in Portland. Some suggested that I consider Reed College which was also in Portland, which had a reputation for high level scholarship.
During the spring of our high school senior year (1954) Ron and I drove down to Portland to visit Lewis and Clark. We were hosted by one of the student body officers, who attempted to sell us on his school, and also, interestingly, testified to us about the importance of living high moral standards. We stayed overnight in the mens dorm, and were treated helpfully another young man. Oddly, I met him again when I enrolled at BYU in 1955. In the meantime, he had been baptized a member of the Church and changed colleges.
I do not recall how far along I had gotten in the application processes of any of these schools by the time of my high school graduation. I think at least I had the Washington State acceptance in hand. I have described elsewhere in more detail the happenings the week after graduation, that were able to fulfill my dreams of being baptized and then experiencing a strong impression to attend BYU. Along with that, I made the strategic decision to work for a year, to save money and to allow my age group to catch up with me. I got some flack from some of my high school teachers over this decision. One said, “Then you will never go to college.”
This choice was unusual, I suppose, but the added year’s maturation before leaving home probably was helpful and enabled me to adjust successfully to living away from home.
As I began college, one of the challenges I had was in trying to select a direction for my classwork. I had had so very little experience with college educated professionals, and ws so naive about what they did in tier work. This was troublesome to me, not only in trying to envision a major as I started college but also when I was well along in graduate school. Growing up in Glenwood, our family had a medical doctor and a dentist, both in White Salmon, that I had visited on an occasion or two. Otherwise, the only other professionals I had ever seen in action were school teachers.
At the very first, I thought that perhaps I should point toward engineering or something having to do with the sciences. The first quarter I took a basic chemistry class and a beginning math class. I could do the work but it turned out that these were the least interesting classes in my schedule, and so I veered in another direction. I enjoyed my vocal music experience that year, but my mind told me that music would not provide a good career if I wanted to be a father and raise a family. Physical education classes were fun. I toyed with the idea of becoming a teacher and a coach, and the following year enrolled in PE skills classes each term for majors in that field.
Finally the idea came more strongly that I should major in something where I could be of service and help people, and I made a commitment to the field of psychology. Perhaps these feelings were parallel to the interest I had developed at about the same time to serve a mission.
While serving as a missionary, that position seemed to me to be reinforced by a woman who invited my companion and me into her home. She asked my what my college major would be when I was released for the mission, and when I replied “Psychology,” she launched into discourse of approval saying how important it is to get Christians into that field.
Back from the mission in the fall of 1959, I got seriously into classwork in psychology with a minor in sociology. One thing I discovered about both of these fields was that they were not much directly about helping people. Rather they were both about establishing a scientific basis for study of mental and social things. They were both about research and emphasized acquiring and applying the tools of the physical sciences in these studies. In the years that followed I remained a little conflicted over this and sometimes wished that there was more in these studies about practical application for helping people.
I finished a Bachelors degree in May of 1961 in psychology, still a little uncertain about what to do next. I went home to Glenwood for the summer and worked with my dad doing carpentry things at Les Lloyd’s dude ranch. Our country was sort of between wars at this time but was still drafting soldiers and we were drifting toward more involvement in Vietnam. I was classified 1-A in the draft. I toyed with the idea of volunteering for the Air Force and went so far as to go down to Portland get some testing to see what I might be offered in the military.
Then I got a call from someone in the BYU Psychology Department. They were upgrading their Master’s program starting in the Fall, and were looking for some more students. Would I be interested? I decided to return to the Y. I also was offered an internship, which would help with the costs of school.
The internship involved helping staff the Department’s statistical lab. It was a small room with a bunch of machines that would run basic statistical procedures. This was pre-computer technology. I spent several hours a week helping undergraduate psychology majors to crank on these old machines and complete their assignments from their basic statistics course.
Generally I found the classes in psychology interesting and moderately challenging. I still recall some research on the binding together of social groups, that cohesiveness of groups is best established in small intimate groups. Therefore, to bind people to a larger group, let’s say a ward, it works best to build relationships between persons in small subgroups. In my experience men and women who have had the chance to serve in presidencies and form close relationship there, seem to feel more closer to the ward. In our Taylorsville Gardens wards we worked hard at creating small social groups for the adults, such as 4-couple dinner groups that met monthly then were rotated, and small temple sealing groups, to attach family heads more closely to our ward.
The last part of the work toward the master’s degree was a thesis, a small independent research effort. I worked closely with two young professors, Kay Smith and Daryl Pererson on this project. Dr. Smith suggested a study which followed along on his own dissertation about how people naively judge or perceive each other. The statistics to do this were pretty advanced and complex, and acquainted me with a procedure called factor analysis. This was a statistical way to simplify or find common underlying dimensions in what looks on the surface to be a very complex situation. In the process, the researcher gets measures on a variable or set of variables, then does the factor analysis to identify the underlying simpler dimensionality, then finally correlates these factors with other measure to try to define what these dimensions are measuring. It is sort of like working a puzzle, where the answers gradually become evident, or maybe processing a photograph and seeing the picture gradually emerge on the photo paper while it is still in the chemical tray. I liked this procedure for research a lot and used it several times over the course of my working career.
In this case it was harder, however, because I was doing this before computerized statistical programs were readily available. We first obtained a step by step logical description of the process written by a professor at one of the big California universities. The BYU computer center assigned a graduate student to me to write the program so that I could analyze my data. His first try did not work. To make it work, he and I sat down and talked through in detail what he had programmed, while I followed along on the logical description. Finally we identified where he had missed the point, and the program worked for my data. In the Thesis Appendix, I included a two page write-up of his program, “Fortransit source program for factor analysis, centroid method without re-estimation of communalities.” Shortly after this time, computerized statistical packages appeared that made the statistical analysis of research data much more accessible and convenient.
Here are summary and conclusions of this study, “The Dimensions of Interpersonal Perception: a Multidimensional Scaling Approach”:
The purpose of this study was to investigate and identify the dimensions of perception in two on-going groups. The procedure used was the multidimensional scaling method of equal-appearing intervals. This method was selected because it enables the investigator to arrive at the dimensionality without making any a priori judgments about the nature of the dimensions. This particularly an advantage in the study of an area such as interpersonal perception when little research has been done previously.
The subjects were the students in the Master of Business Administration program at Brigham Young University during the school year 1962-63. The first year group (group I) of 16 students and the second year group (group II) of 13 students were analyzed separately in order to obtain some indication of the stability of the obtained dimensions.
Each subject made a general judgment of relative similarity of difference between every possible pair of members of his group on an eight point scale. An approximation to a ratio scale was obtained by adding a constant to all of the average distances.
Scalar products between points referred to an origin at the centroid of all the points were computed from the absolute distances. The scalar products were factor analyzed by the centroid method. Three factors were judged to be significant for each group and were rotated orthogonally to simple structure. These factors represented the major dimensions upon which the subjects perceived the members of their group. Identification of the factors was accomplished by correlating them with measures of a number of personality variables. These included ratings by' the students and their professors, information from student files and scores on the Guilford-Zimmerman Temperament Survey.
A comparison of the factors seems to show that the perceptual dimensions for the two groups are somewhat similar. Factor I for both groups related to individual competency. The basis for their judgments seemed to differ, however. The Group I judgments seemed related to perceived competency while Group II were able to judge from demonstrated competency. Also for Group II there was an emphasis on effective social relationships.
The second factor tor both groups related to social orientation and group maintenance as opposed to aggressive self-interest.
There were no significant correlations with Factor III for Group II. Factor III for Group I was very tentatively thought to relate to social interest and self understanding.
These factors seemed to be related to dimensions of perception found by Burke & Bennis (1961) using the Group Semantic Differential scale and to perceptual dimensions of personality obtained by Jackson, Messick, & Solley (1957) using multidimensional scaling procedures. They also are similar to dimensions of behavior in groups which investigator using other methodologies have revealed.
In summary, the applicability of multidimensional scaling procedures to the investigation of the dimensions of perception of a group was again demonstrated. The perceptions were found to be ordered in a limited dimensionality and to be relatively stable across two groups. The dimensions were found to be consistent with the findings from the limited amount of research that has been done in the area of interpersonal perception and also to correspond to observed dimensions in groups. (From Robert E. Lewis master’s thesis, Chapter VI, “Summary and Conclusions,” The Dimensions of Interpersonal Perception: a Multidimensional Scaling Approach, Brigham Young University, July 1963)
As I was finishing this study, I was dating seriously and then engaged to JoAnn. I was grateful to her for typing my psychology master’s thesis. I remember driving over to Spanish several times with edited drafts in hand and picking up improved versions.
As I was completing the work for the master’s degree, I still did not have a very good vision of what should come next education and career wise. Midway through the program I took a national standard exam in psychology, called the Graduate Record Examination (GRE), which was a number of sometimes used to a evaluate candidates for graduate work in psychology and other fields. This made me the focus of additional attention by faculty members, because I scored in the top one or two percentiles. Faculty persons seemed sure that I should go some somewhere else to work on a Ph.D. Kay Smith, my thesis advisor, suggested a program in industrial psychology, where I might find practical applications in my work. I applied to three places for doctoral work and was accepted in all three, and finally decided on a program at Wayne State University in Detroit, Michigan.
JoAnn and I got married on September 5th, of that very year (1963) and honeymooned our way across country to Detroit. Quickly we were expecting our first baby. Marriage and impending fatherhood amplified and mad more real my concerns about education and career choices. It became apparent to me that I would not have a very happy wife living far away from Utah. I also reflected on a line in my patriarchal blessing, “I bless you with the blessings of the everlasting hills, homes and habitations to live in.” I asked myself the questions, “Where are the jobs for industrial psychologists? Am I educating myself right out of being able to live where I and my family need to be and will be the happiest?”
The answer was clear. So I made the choice to leave that doctoral program at Wayne State after the end of the quarter and for us to return to live in Utah.
Still focusing career and education, when we returned to Spanish Fork, I weighed more deeply my interests, and of course began to be more serious and to try to be more realistic about my expectations. To keep us in some income I sold Watkins products door to door in Payson. We found an apartment to rent in Fred Jex’s basement, in the Spanish Fork 1st ward, and Reed Hughes owner of Hughes Dairy, who was in this ward, had me run an early morning milk route in portions of Spanish Fork for a short time. I explored the possibility of teaching seminary, took a BYU class and student-taught in the Spanish Fork High School Seminary in the class of Robert Foster. But I didn’t get a job offer.
I haunted Job Service looking for something that my psychology background would qualify me to do. There were openings with the state of Utah, for juvenile corrections workers but especially for welfare workers. I took some tests, was qualified, and offered jobs all in the same week in the Ogden and Salt Lake offices, but took a position in Provo offered by the old Utah County Welfare Department head, Bessie Meiling. I started employment for the State, June 1, 1964.
I began work as a family (AFDC) welfare caseworker with a limited size caseload that was supposed to allow for intensive work these clients, with objectives to improve family and parental functioning and their potential for financial independence. I thought that the work was useful and satisfying. I also quickly noticed that persons needed a Masters of Social Work degree to advance in the organization. Along with that, the Department was offering a generous stipend program to employees to go back to school and earn their MSW that was a part of President Johnson’s war on poverty.
There were a limited number of these new stipends each year, six I believe, which paid full tuition plus three-fourth salary during the two school years that the program required to achieve this advanced degree. Liking my employment by the state agency, JoAnn and I decided after a year and a half, that I should try for this stipend. I applied and was accepted into the MSW program at the University of Utah, but did not get the stipend for 1966. I got a nice promotion, however, to administer a program at the welfare-related at the Geriatric Unit of the Utah State Hospital, to place stable elderly patients in nursing home. I postponed my matriculation to the program at the U of U, and then was awarded the stipend to start work on my MSW in the fall of 1967. We were living in Orem at this time, and I commuted (car pooled) to the U campus with another student. Classes in the program were two or three days a week. The other days were spent at field placements (internships). Mine were in Utah County, at the Utah State Training School in American Fork, and at the Jefferson School in Springville.
I found the classes in social work relevant and interesting. The three years I had worked in the field helped me to ask the right questions and gave me meaningful insights. I even found enjoyment in being in the social work section of the U of U library, and randomly pulling out and reading from books on the field. I also began to discover a strength that I had in comparison to most other social work students, and one that they generally didn’t even want to have–I could relate to quantitative things.
Requirements in the MSW program included a group thesis, and toward the end of the second year, somehow I was involved in a group of ten persons. We met together and struggled for consensus, finally agreeing on a direction, with some difficulty developed an interview strategy, and finally reached to point where we needed to write up our findings. I expressed some of my frustrations and also concerns to another member of the group, Evan Jones–deadlines for finishing the project were fast approaching. Like me, Evan was from the our Department and was trying to upgrade his ability to complete for promotions. He had been serving as director of our agency’s personnel office and was a younger brother of Dan Jones, the Utah pollster. Evan had the same concerns, so we agreed to meet and strategize about finishing the thesis write-up. We decided that it would be impossible for the writing to be done as a group project involving the other members of our group, so the two of just assigned ourselves to write up the results, and in about a week the thesis text was nearly complete. Everyone breathed a sigh of relief and graduated on schedule.
Here is a summary of our study, “Runaway Youth in Salt Lake County: a Study of Their Use of Social Service Agencies and Community Planning Related to Their Problems”:
The purposes of this study were: (1) to examine a select sample of "runaways" at the Salt Lake County Detention Center in relation to various personal characteristics, their reasons for running away, and their knowledge and utilization of social services; (2) to review the kinds of social services available to youth in Salt Lake County, the agency executives' knowledge of the "runaway" problem and their participation in planning for youth services; (3) to determine the extent to which Salt Lake County social planning executives knew of the "runaway" problem and their involvement in planning for youth services which may be related to the problems of "runaways."
Three interrelated but separate samples were selected in order to study the research questions. The first sample consisted of 80 “runaways” to the Detention Center. The second sample consisted of 27 social service agencies in Salt Lake County to which the “runaways” could have access. The third sample in this study consisted of six planning organizations which were considered to be the planning structure tor youth-oriented social services in Salt Lake County.
There were nearly twice as many females as males in the study sample. The Spanish-American ethnic group was more prevalent than in the total public school population of Salt Lake County. A large majority of the sample attending school considered themselves either failing or doing poorly in school. Almost half of the “runaways” were 1iving with both natural parents, 60 percent of the “runaways” in this study had been admitted to the Detention Center prior to their present confinement.
Running away was found to be symptomatic of personal-familial problems which the “runaway” bad been experiencing for six months or longer. In three out of every four “runs” the primary cause for running was “trouble at home.”
A large majority of the selected agencies in Salt Lake County at the time of this study were not known to the “runaways” in the sample. Approximately two-thirds of the agencies known to the “runaways” had never been visited. Among the visited agencies only nine percent of the “runaways” went voluntarily to seek help with their problems. In 55 percent of the cases the youth in the study sample learned of agencies either from friends or from personal experience. Law enforcement, detention, probation and recreation services accounted for the majority of visits to social service agencies. Two of every three youth who had visited agencies indicated that in their judgment they had not been helped in resolving their problems.
Three out of four of the selected social service agencies offered various kinds of counseling services. Eligibility requirements, fee scales, required parental permission, waiting lists, round-the-clock services, and/or public information programs had no relationship in this study to either knowledge or utilization of the services by the “runaway.” A large majority of the agency directors were unable to accurately estimate the number of “runaways” in Salt Lake County.
The executives of the planning agencies of Salt Lake County had a rather sophisticated knowledge of the “runaway” problem. Only one of the six planning structure organizations was developing a specific direct service program for “runaways.” However, all were participating 1n the planning of youth services. These executives indicated that a major obstacle to effective delivery of services to youth in Salt Lake County was a lack of coordination and cooperative planning.
(Abstract for Master’s Thesis, by Lawrence S. Bradshaw, Kenneth R. Dubois, Sandra M Hoogland, Even E. Jones, Jr., Otto F. Jones, Ronald B. Kelly, Leslie Ann Laymon, Robert E. Lewis, Arthur H Lisne, and Vernon R. Morgan, “Runaway Youth in Salt Lake County: a Study of Their Use of Social Service Agencies and Community Planning Related to Their Problems,” University of Utah, June 1969)
As an aside, the relationship I formed with Evan Jones led to some promotions and also some nice opportunities for professional growth and contributions. In June, I went back to a caseload in the Utah County office, but by the end of the summer, Evan had been appointed as director of a demonstration project on staff utilization, and came calling wanting me to join the project. Within the next year, he was appointed director of our Agency and I replaced him as director of the Manpower Project. When that project finished its work, he invited me to serve in the position of Planning Director for our agency.
There was at least one more major educational endeavor remaining in my life. A number of years had passed and I had served in a number of roles and positions in my state agency. It was about 1986. This was at a time that I had been experiencing some frustration with my work assignments. I had been turned down for a Regional Director position I had wanted. I was doing insignificant work, serving in an audit and evaluation unit. I determined to work on a doctorate, as perhaps a strategy to elevate my position and competitiveness in our Department. I applied and was accepted into a doctoral program at the School of Social Work at the U of U. I had gotten support from my supervisor, Dick Crouch, who allowed me to spend some time at the school for classwork and some use of work-related resources in my studies.
I found these studies exhilarating. I have said to some of my grandchildren, that education became more relevant and enjoyable each additional step I took. Starting in grades seven and eight which were barely survivable, high school was better, college was better than high school, master’s studies better that undergraduate work, and these doctoral studies better than they all. Of course, I was older and could relate to most of the instructors as peers.
I quickly gained relationships with staff persons in the Social Research Institute which was attached to the School of Social Work and its director, Mark Fraser. Also Fred Janzen and Peter Pecora, both of whom were research-oriented faculty persons. These relationships were helpful in developing my dissertation project and continued with cooperative endeavors after I finished my doctorate and was serving in later positions with my state agency. We did several joint research projects, and published their results. Fred also worked with me as a consultant on some of our Division projects. Fred and I also worked together teaching some social work classes for the school on research and computer applications.
Peter and Mark had a federal grant to study family preservation services in child welfare. For my doctoral dissertation, I was able to use data that they had collected. I contributed a chapter to a book that they published, and participated. in other ways in their research on this subject. Intensive family preservation service was an innovative program initiative in child welfare at that time, and for that matter, it still is. It attempted to remedy some of the faults in the public child welfare system by putting more resources into helping families with a history of child neglect to improve their parenting skills and efforts, thus reducing removals of children and other forms of family break-up. I have more to say about my efforts with these services in the chapter on my working career.
Here is a summery of my dissertation study, “Service-Related Correlates of Treatment Success in Intensive Family Preservation Services for Child Welfare.”
The purposes of this study were to describe the characteristics of intensive family preservation services (FPS) and to identify the association between FPS variables and desired treatment outcomes as defined by service goal attainment and prevention of out-of-home-placement of children. Subjects were 581 children from 453 families served by two related FPS programs, Homebuilders in the state of Washington and the Family Preservation Project of the Utah Department of Social Services. The latter had been trained in FPS by staff of the Homebuilders' program.
Findings from this study provided empirical data supporting the comprehensive and intensive nature of this model of FPS. Important elements of this model included the provision of concrete services and utilization of a broad range of clinical services. Clinical approaches included a major emphasis on both social learning approaches and psychotherapeutic interventions. The most significant services directly associated with reduced risk of out-of-home placement were the clinical intervention Time/Money Management, the amount of therapist time spent in providing concrete services, and goal attainment ratings.
Service models predictive of the attainment of specific goals included a wide variety of clinical techniques, including psychotherapeutic interventions, social learning approaches, and concrete services. Service models developed for adolescent and nonprotective service referra1 subgroups accounted for 1ower proportions of variance, had fewer significant interventions, and included fewer variables relating to concrete services and educational approaches.
Among the implications of these findings was the affirmation of the essential features contained in the Homebuilders' model as an approach to preventing out-of-home placement of children. Important components included provision of concrete services and a broad range of clinical interventions, encompassing both direct interventions and educationa1 approaches. Models for resolving problems in families of adolescents suggested a somewhat different configuration of services. Findings reinforce the need in social work practice and in social work education to continue to give attention to a broad range of intervention skills, including provision of concrete services, clinical techniques from a variety of theoretical paradigms, client training approaches, and community and social network involvement.
(Abstract for Doctoral Dissertation, Robert E. Lewis, “Service-Related Correlates of
Treatment Success in Intensive Family Preservation Services for Child Welfare,” University of Utah, June 1990.)
Completing the work for my degree, Doctor of Social Work or DSW, seemed to work some changes in my attitudes and goals for work. It seemed to free me in a way to pursue what I wanted and thought to be correct and to not be concerned with promotions or status positions. I felt a sort of independence that I had not had before. And oddly, it brought me back to where I started in psychology, emphasizing quantitative things, something I had dismissed earlier. This all reminds me of some lines by T. S. Eliot:
We shall not cease from exploration
And the end of all our exploring
Will be to arrive where we started
And know the place for the first time.
At least, I believe I did this all in a way that supported and did not detract from the happiness and well-being of my family.
I also enjoyed the opportunity to be a part of the academic world in a small way, in teaching some classes, coordinating on research projects, being on a dissertation committee, and have the status for a number of years of adjunct professor at the School of Social Work at the U.
Here is one more higher education post-script. Later, in the process of directing the SAFE (DCFS child welfare MIS) project, I acquired ten more graduate credit hours from Utah State University in information technology.
And now, one more note about the field of social work. I became convinced that the training that Social Work provided for persons to be helpers was perhaps the best practical preparation at the time for child welfare workers and even mental health counselors. However, toward the end of my working career I let my membership in the National Association for Social Workers (NASW) lapse, because the national scene seemed irrelevant. NASW had become dominated by feminists, apologists for same-sex marriage and LGBTQ causes, and other concerns of identity politics. The history of social work, of course, had a focus in persons like immigrants who had special needs, and practitioners had always tried to be advocates for the poor and other victims of social problems, but the problems of concern to NASW seemed more elitist, than of the poor and needy. On the other hand, our child welfare FPS initiative was aimed at strengthening families so that children would have the optimal environment for healthy development. In some ways this appeared to be the opposite of the causes that NASW was concerned about at the moment.
Additionally, the academic world that had always had some attraction to me, seemed more and more dominated by the same narrow ethos as NASW. I served on a doctoral committee for Elaine Walton’s dissertation at the U of U. She was a fortyish woman, who after finishing her doctorate, joined the faculty of the school of social work at Ohio State, and then later returned to Utah as the dean of the school of social work at BYU. She reported on several ugly experiences and rejections by members of the OSU faculty, simply because of her membership in our Church. I am glad to not have had these kinds of experiences in the academic world elsewhere. I do not know if I could recommend social work as a career direction today.
























